Honestly don’t know who needs to hear this but you’re way better off single with high standards than accepting the bare minimum from a guy who doesn’t know what he wants <3

Go tell her 🤌🏻🏃‍♀️🏃‍♀️

literally needed to hear this. thank you. 

3am Thoughts

**If you are looking for a sign this is for you**
*See the inner child in everyone* Sometimes when I'm getting frustrated or annoyed with someone, I remember that they were once a child.  I close my eyes and I visualize how they must have been when they were little and when I reopen my eyes, all I can feel for that person is love and compassion.  Whatever happened to them to make them act the way they are no longer matters;  it's their innocence that prevails, and I have no choice but to be humbled in their presence. 

 *Goal*: See the potential for good in everyone and have compasion for your foes.  Remember that you never know what happens behind closed doors.  Therefore, have mercy on their actions.  It's likely that they're in pain themselves....
- unknown

Adding on this it does'nt mean to stay at the place where you are not appreciated..it just mean to forgive them if they did anything bad to you ..dont hold grudges..i hope you got the message...


Mental Wellbeing

Is there anyone who doesn't act up . 

If you’re confused about what you want to do in your life, here’s some advice.

You should not do what makes you happy. It’s a recipe for disaster.

You should do what makes you feel ALIVE.

You should do what feeds your soul.

I’m not talking about your career 
(although you could if you’re in the top 5% in that field)

But I’m talking about life in general.

You don’t have to do what everybody else does, that’s for sure.

Find your calling.

don’t be afraid to stand out.

Hustle

A relationship is becoming toxic the minute it makes you believe that you deserve the 

- Pain 
- Disrespect 
- Being Ignored 
- Loneliness 

Don't become accustomed to those uncomfortable feelings 

They are telling you something. Acknowledge them and take action 

Mental Health

Anyone here who have social anxiety?we can chat, i want to chat with people who i have something in common

Friends

i do everything in this household and they never appreciate it. I wake up early hours to clean and make breakfast for the family before I leave for school myself - I have to wake up at 5am because the first person to leave needs to leave by 5:50. I clean the house every single day alone even though there is another sibling who stays home everyday with no job or anything to do. Yet does not contribute to anything at all. 

I come home to a mess and they expect me to clean after school & before I have to leave for work after school. - even thought the one sibling could have at least spent 1hr of there time cleaning since they do not study or have a job. 

I come home to this siblings mess and my dad expects me to clean it. I’ve ask multiple times nicely if they could at least clean up after themselves. But because I’m younger my dad expects me to clean up siblings mess even though he stays home with them & does not bother to tell her. 

I stay home for study leave and when I do stay my dad decides it’s time for me to clean the house EVERYDAY while I’m home to study. 

I go out with my other siblings who do not stay at the house - for a couple hours & come home to them wanting me to do more chores that they could’ve don’t while I was gone. This happens everyday it’s like they wait for me to come to do it. 

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