Hii, so a guy friend of mine said he liked me for a few years now and i said I did too but i am not too sure if it's liking or admiration. So the thing is we decided we want to be just friends and focus on studies but our friends are slightly pressuring us telling to be either friend or couple. What should I do to make them stop?

I think u should first clear what u are to him a friend a lover or anything else then online tell friends

Prashansa

Do what you guys want to do. Do not let your friends force you to do things which you do not want to do. 

Confusion

Hi, I’m married for 9 years and have a 2 month old daughter. My in laws family have mentally tortured me for last 8 years and exploited me for my hard earned money. I had left my house alone but my husband moved out from his family home and convinced me to go back to him and stay separately. Now again he has started pushing me to patch things up with in laws which I don’t want to do as they are not good people. My husband is still torturing me and my parents mentally under the influence of his parents. 
I don’t know how to handle this now. I’m in postpartum phase and this torture is pushing me into depression though I have my parents by my side.

Emotional Abuse

Dhadakta bhi hai 
Tadapta bhi hai 
Yeh dil kyun achanak behekta bhi hai ? 


Love

Just want to drop a hug to you all. 
You are special and you matter. 

Sapna toota hai to dilkabhi jalta hai,
Haan thoda dard hua... par chalta hai... 😔

Music

So I started with 12th..11th got over a  week ago.. preparing for neet..but suddenly I have lost interest in it..
I no longer find biology intersting..
I feel like why am i doing this... like spending 10 years of your life studying for people and still all the people with doctor mom dad owns the platform
. or the rich parents' kids..I don't have family background of medical so I know it's gonna be hard but in middle of neet preparation I no longer find it at all interesting..I hate chemistry now and physics I don't even know how will I do it.. everyday I just wake up being sad and frustrated that again I have to attend that boring lectures
I am clueless about it

Frustration

Hi Everyone,  yesterday morning one of my friends asked me what I was doing for the day. I told her I was going to a Meetup on the beach where there is a large group of people.  she had initially decided on her own that she didn't want to go and now wants to go with me.  We get there and she decides suddenly that she doesn't want to socialize with anyone in the group (except for me),  and decides to either hang out on the beach - away from the BBQ (she forgot it was a BBQ as well) going on with other people. I went back and forth between talking to her and talking to people who signed up for the event.  Only a couple of times she spoke with other people in the group for a short period of time. Otherwise she isolated herself from the crowd. she is usually an extrovert and suddenly got nervous about being around people she didn't know. I told her I barely knew anyone there either and I'm naturally an introvert.  So after a few hours or so I decided to stay later and she decided to leave. Luckily this is an event that is open to the public in a public area and it doesn't really matter if more people come or not and when they arrive or leave. 
Having a friend inviting themselves to an event that I'm going to (including a sit down brunch at a restaurant) with other friends has happened in the past. I'm not the one who scheduled these events myself. I don't like when a friend invites themselves to these kinds of events. I'm not sure what to say to friends in the future because I want to be truthful but I don't want them adding themselves without permission from the person who actually scheduled the event.  I just needed someplace - like here - to vent and get it off my chest.  Every once in a while I'm struggle with these social etiquette situations.  


Friends

I feel so incredibly lost,weak and I also feel like a failure.All these feelings inside of me I can’t deal with them.I’m just so tired of living.Trying to achieve something.Maybe I’m scared but maybe I’m following the wrong path and it makes me feel bad or maybe I‘m the reason I feel like that and fail all the time.

Depression

Is anyone an alcoholic here? Or is it just me?

Sharing Our Innermost Thoughts