Shreya Dhawan @shreyadhaw...
Hii i really need some advice right now
So basically I am loosing my real close friend right now like she said i was rude for half of the month and not giving an excuse but I had been real busy during those times and that made me frustrated which unintentionally was let out on her as she thinks and she says that I have adopted that behaviour and i am toxic rude manipulative and what not so at one of our fights she bought up that we should end this close friendship and be just friends or cut off if i want i said yes at first because that was really unexpected from her and after two three days i became calm and talked to her about the issue she said she wonโt talk for atleast 2 months and in that time if it was me who was the reason she would just donโt talk and if she realises it isnโt me then she would text back again and i again texted her after 3 days and she just misterpreted my every word and said that she is blocking me cuz I am going back to that topic again and she doesnโt want to talk right now should i u
Put efforts to it or just back off
Just Back off !
Find others who can atleast listen.
Just back off for sometime and let her have an alone time and find a mediator like a mutual friend so you two can communicate and solve the problem โฆ Maybe she is having some problem and is frustrated or something โฆ But if she still doesnโt want to sort it out then maybe you just have to let her go and move on โฆ More importantly be happy
Alok Kumar @alok
Goin through the same phase, only thing Iโd suggest is that, write everything you feel, why you acted like that in the first place, you are sorry, what she means to you, write the truth, and then give her space. It she is real sheโll come around :)
Shreya Dhawan @shreyadhaw...
I did i did say sorry for my part despite knowing that it might be her fault on her end too but forget it โฆ i did tell her I will be there for her everytime she needs me she needs someone to talk but I donโt know she is just misinterpreting every word i say even something random and says she can fight on that thing which is not even worth a fight not even related to us so i donโt know if i should go away or not cuz this bond means so much to me
Alok Kumar @alok
Then I guess you should give her space, we canโt keep people in our life just cuz we want to โฆ Learnt in a hard way
Shreya Dhawan @shreyadhaw...
I know i would have done the same but she is not ready for it i think she wants me to go out of her life
Mayank @true_who
Look let her know u will always be there for her nd leave her .itโs hurting u naa even after doing lot of things
Pelle ohlin @demise
If you think that things can workout then you can try apologizing her or you can just back off
Pushkar @pushkar254
Just Stop thinking about her. If you you back off you will be thinking about it and imagine a picture. The next time she meets and it doesnโt go as per your mind you will be fustrated again. If you take a effort the same thing happens. So stop thinking about it. When she contact you again you will be original you to handle the situation perfectly.
Shreya Dhawan @shreyadhaw...
Thank you really needed some adviceโฆjust couldnโt figure out what to do i was so confused whether i was at fault or what i just couldnโt get to a conclusion
Pushkar @pushkar254
Your welcome
