hii guys! theres this guy i like him so much ..i literally think about him everytime .He is so nice and sweet guy and honestly a staight forward man ..I would say . i dont know if he likes me or not !? he texts me the minute after i text him,but he nerver opens up to me .like yesterday something happened with him ...i asked him if he wants to talk about it ...he said no and i didnt force him to speak with me ...but honestly i think he likes me little ... i dont know i just cant help but believe that .I ask him about what he does ,how he was etc but he never cared to ask me ... the only time he asked me ,about my stuff was when i met him ...and that was only for what 5-10 mins 
am i obsessing over him ?
😐

how am i suppose to know which of the option it is ?
i am honestly not good at this kind of stuff.

i dont wanna be a timepass material.. like honestly its the thing i do wanna communicate..but also i dont wanna look a fool infront of him

Don't fall for him, he is not suitable for you. The "Love" - means sharing and caring each other with trust. So he didn't have that eligibility. I think he is selfish , workaholic and crush on someone, but in your case, you have infatuation on him. Just be friends with him. Try to know about him more n more. As a girl you should not end up ur life falling for easily. Stay strong.

Relationships

I know a person who owns a company.. he himself said that I can try for job in his company any day. But when I texted him asking for the job openings he didn’t reply at all .. am desperate for a job, should i ask again or not. Am very shy person and kind of feel embarrassed 

Career

My boyfriend & I are planning to get married. His parents has no property whatsoever & is completely dependent on him. My boyfriend's income isn't that great and still he is planning to buy a house that will leave him with only a petty amount per month for household expense. Tho, I would be contributing running the house but I'm scared as A LOT of responsibility would come up on me. (Handling my expense, kid's expense and boyfriend's parents too up to a certain extent). I feel lost.

Marriage

There's a guy I've been dating for more than 2 years now and he's just... Blocking me out of nowhere suddenly and we've shared some pretty good moments... It's not casual that he can just ghost me out... He's said he sees himself marrying me one day and he just suddenly blocks me... I try to be very supportive and very nice to him but I'm just so tired of being treated like a toy... I've given up so much for him... And I just don't know what to do anymore... I've had enough but I've also wasted so much time on him... I don't know what I should do anymore, I'm just so so tired 

I have a friend and I am totally in love with him but he is kinda not interested in relationship bcoz of his past traumas.. he knows that I love him alot but it's his decision and I respect it but sometimes we talk and he feel very comfortable with me , he said and he likes how just we are compatible with everything. But I just want a clarity in my life should I just go with the flow by putting efforts orrr should I ignore him and don't talk to him. Because wo h toh kisi Orr prr dhyan nhi bhi jata and I am not a casual dating type person. Should I wait for him to reciprocate?? 

3am Thoughts

do you ever truly get over someone? I feel like I'm over him, but at the same time, it's like I want to find him in everyone else that comes my way. his personality, her character his ways everything and if they don't it's like I don't even show interest because it's like nobody can ever be in his level or at least make me feel like how he did. so how is it that I feel as if I'm over him but I'm still looking for him in either guys??? 



Confusion

I am, so through with everything. 

My relationship feels so strong yet so weak. I can’t stand my fiancé but I love him. It’s so hard being so torn because he makes me feel worthless, everything else in his life takes priority, his work, his friends, his vehicle. I am just, not enough? But I know I am enough... I do so much for this man, I treat him, I let him do what he wants, I pay attention to him, I want nothing more than to be his everything. I just don’t think I am. 

I am much more expressive than him anyway but this isn’t the issue. There is just **no** attention whatsoever, he has to be distracted by something when he is with me. He has to be on his phone ‘working’ or watching TV. He can’t stand having a conversation, he won’t just grab me and cuddle me or kiss me or tell me he loves me. It just feels like I’m with a FWB, not someone who is (apparently) willing to spend the rest of his life with me. God, I’m *so* upset. It’s really taken a toll on me today, I ask him to not go out for the day with his two friends and one of their girlfriends but apparently he had to just leave his fiancé for them today. So now I’ve been sat here, for nearly 5 hours in my own in our lonely house. This house doesn’t even huddle like a home because he’s never in it, and when he is here he’s asleep in bed because he’s so tired from work, and I get that because his job is manual-but no time is made for me. Him going out today has just proven to me that it isn’t that work is tiring him out, as he has time for other people. His issue is spending time with me, the girl that pays his bills when he can’t, covers for him when he needs me to, does everything EVERYTHING for him but he can’t stand spending any one on one time with me. 

I can’t even express how frustrated and upset I am. I love this house, I love my cat that lives with us and I love the thought of being with this man for the rest of my life, but I also really...don’t. I don’t want to wake up everyday feeling this way, exhausted with how much effort I make for someone that can’t even reciprocate it; I genuinely do not think I’m asking for much... or maybe I am because you know, for 6 whole years he’s not managed to pull through. I don’t want to lose him but I’m also thinking maybe I have to, to make myself happy. 

I wish I could go back .
I don't have regrets but still sometimes when I think deep , inside somewhere it hurts ! I still respect my first love, idky!! I wish I never dated someone ! I wish I didn't expected that I can give them happiness!! I wish I couldn't care for them that time!! I don't blame myself or them for anything , but I wish it never happened!! I wish I never cried or mad for them !! It was not easy to forget about them !! (After sometime like 2 yrs I dated a guy) I wish he never came to my life !! Well from the beginning I was prepared somewhere I knew it doesn't last long!! And after few months it happened ! I knew it before it's gonna happen, but I was prepared!! It doesn't hurt me anymore bec I came in relationship with that person so that I can understand his all problems and I can give him love and support but somewhere he doesn't want that Bec he was  already confused in his life!! I forgive him !! It wasn't his mistake! I already knew this is going to happen! Now he realised that how much I cared for him!! I'm greatful for what I did .

But now I'm going to wait for the person , not gonna date anyone ! It's not easy to see myself like everything is alright🌸 
I always tried to comfort , love , heal thier wounds when I was the most hurted person 💟
It was all lesson! Life is all about learning💜 I love the past me , present me& future me !!


Happy

My heart broke into pieces today..few months ago my crush started to show intrest in me...he used to pick me up from my college and then used to drop me back home, he used to take care of me which i really liked and he also started to buy me chocolate , he  used to flirt with me , and he listened to all of my stories with a smile on his face, i thought he also liked me back but i was stoopid to think that, today when i told him how i feel about him..he told me that he doesn't think me in that way and he always think of me as his friend...i was fine with it, i really liked him but i can't force him to like me too, i can't force my feelings on him and it wasn't his falt what i was feeling at that time.  So  i decided to talk to him one last time and let go all of my feelings for him but what my ears heard that time was more then enough to tear my heart apart he was sitting with my own bestfriend on his lap and they were discussing about me at my own f**king house...they both were calling me stoopid ,fat, ugly , and someone with no self respect and then my crush told her what i said to him and then they both laughed at me...i know u guys won't be able to understand me Because i am little high now but i really do wanna start new and want to forget him 

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