Hi
Well due to some reasons I ain't able to get intimate activities so I started watching porn and now it has became like an addiction. I wanna stop this but my mind takes me there I did try distracting my mind, doing yoga and meditation, still my mind goes about it. I literally watch it for 4 5  hours per day. Someone please lemme know how I can get rid of it.
PS: I'm a girl 

I was very much sexually active back then but as I have my exams in 2 months I took a break from all that to focus on studies. So now as don't do that I go and watch it. 

No not masturbate have proper sex like 3 4 times a week. 

I don't get anything from watching it but like I have stopped having sex I urge to watch it.

Yess like before taking this break whenever I used to be horny I used to go and have sex but from many days I haven't and that's the reason my mind goes to watch it

No not from batchmates I hardly go to clg I even do internship so it's a full time job. I use dating app so could get people from there. Like not all or multiple but few of them.

Yess that's true ik what you saying. I really try to avoid watching it but then it urge gets more. I don't live with my family I live alone so crowded places or family option won't work. And I tried going to the public library for studying but due to this pandemic they ain't allowing. 

That's great I guess I should block those sites and mostly refer to paper books that the pdf one

Yes I'll definitely try my max to reduce it. Thanks for you help:)

Yeah I really do understand all this but my mind is so clever it goes there again

Yes that's the point. It doesn't gives any outcome or satisfaction still mind wants to see it

Yeahh ikik😂😂 I really wanna get rid of it

Yess it like I wake up early morning then I do meditation and yoga then study for few hours then have breakfast but after that when I try to focus my minds goes to it. Like in mrng I really don't have any not a single sexual thought but the day like around noon my mind is filled with it.

Yeah that's the thing if I would have been at my house then parents would have been around and this wouldn't have happen.
Sorry I would have liked to connect but I have deleted all social media for a while.

Yeah even I feel it's just a waste of time like looking forward I have exams and need to concentrate on that still my mind goes to watch it. I did even google how to get rid of this addiction and tried meditation and all but it only lasts for few hours. And as you said it's a kind of escape so for me sex was an escape from my mind, giving me energy back from being mentally and physically drained. I'm just too much over stressed due to many reasons since a year and then finally I got my escape as sex but now I haven't done it for more than 10 12 days. Maybe that's what makes me atleast watch it.

Yeah I'll try making some plan or schedule and work on it. Thankss for advising so much :)

I really do have many people to have sex but I have taken a break from it for a while.

Addiction

I feel so messed up i smoke weed i wanna give it up but i simply can't
And its so fuckin tough when your parents are dumb as fuck


I’ve started to see why people take drugs . 

Have you ever had that vapor rub you put under your nose when your sick? Once you put it under your nose that barrier that was blocking you to breath is finally gone. But  don’t forget when you put it under your nose  it’s a temporary feeling...  It’s the same way with drugs. You take it and that barrier that’s blocking you is finally let down when you take that pill your happy and you don’t have to worry about reality . But then again it’s temporary. When that pill is done doing it’s job your back to reality , your back to that barrier that’s blocking you from escaping your thoughts, tragedies, and reality .

Vapor rub and drugs are both different but they both serve the same purpose which is to let down that  barrier that’s interfering with your life at that moment and give you a moment of relief and peace.

3am Thoughts

How to overcome my addiction of porn i am still thinking about it when i am writing this 
It makes me feel guilty

I suffer from Addiction and I don’t know what to do anymore . 


What kind of  addiction you all have ?? 

Adulting

I’m
Addictive to adult films don’t report me but it been a long addictions I help prayers 

I am a man with high sexual appetite and sometimes it causes a lot of trouble.
I remember once I was with my then gf and we were at it for over an hour and she had to tell me to stop (moreover it was our first time together). It was then that I realised that there is something very wrong.
I guess I am sex addict coz I need sex atleast 2-3 times a day or else I need to masturbate that many times.
But at this point in life I am with someone I really love but she can't completely satisfy me as I want it more and more and again and again.
It's gotten to a point that cheating on her comes to me like a casual thought and what's even worse is that I can't thinking about this childhood friend of hers whom I'd totally have an affair with. I have been controlling it ever since and never made a move on any other woman coz I live the person I am with and don't wanna hurt her.

So how do I control myself more effectively and prevent these thoughts to come to me in the first place!!???

We all are addicted to something that ruins us.

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