Hi there, I had a break up recently and the sad part is my ex got into a new relationship in just a few days. But as per indian society rules i am the one other people are blaming. They think I did something wrong in the relationship. I just want to start talking to someone again… my crush thinks it was because of her that I broke up and has gone into a guilt trip. She left me too.
Hey there ! please stay strong in these tough times. please stop thinking about what people will say or talk about you. people will talk and its their job to talk… so please dont worry about what others will think, you know your reality. Secondly im really sorry for what youre going through. You said you wanted someone to talk to… and im here if you want to… ill help you in whatever way i can;)
Hi there. I read your post and would like to say that I feel your pain. I don’t know the details of the relationship so I can’t speak too much on it but I would like to let you know that you’re not wrong to feel the way you do. Breakups are tough and having people guilt trip you and pin the blame on you when they don’t even know you makes it even harder to deal with. I would recommend focusing on you’re mental health and surrounding yourself with positive understanding friends. Jumping into a new relationship or beating yourself up over you’re ex and crush will only make matters worse.
Allow yourself time to come to terms with your ex and move on from her. Just because she found a new guy right after you guys broke up doesn’t mean you were a bad boyfriend or that her new man is better than you. It just means that you two were not compatible and not meant to be together. Stay away from anyone negative people who tries to shame you and focus on getting yourself back on your feet. Learn from the situation and become wiser. Stay positive because there are good people in this world that care about you and love you. I’m a clear example of this. Staying positive will attract the better people and women in you’re life that you’ll be far more compatible with. Be happy you guys broke up and she showed her true colors. It saves you time and allows you to find a better partner who genuinely loves you and cares about you. Hopefully this helped.