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Anonymous

Hi, posting after an year. Hope you are doing good.
I am 30/Female and not feeling good since a long time.
Have been into a bad relationship and have beem single since 3 years now. Everyone around is getting married. All my friends,cousins, everyone. I miss not having anypne around me to talk to. I tried talking to people on apps but it is not working.

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Spͥคrͣrͫ๏ @_amn_

Hi

Sai Kiran @saikiran19083

Apps won’t work, get socialized make friends and talk to people once you get socialized

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Anonymous

How? Kahan chali jaun socialize karne?

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Anonymous

Continuing here- It feels it is a very difficult task to find someone now and probably I will not find anyone now. Even on the dating apps, I cant even proceed beyond hi/hello. Aesa lagta baat karna hee bhool chuki hu kisi se bhi. Lagta hai I am too tired to talk to anybody. Also, can anyone recommend a good therapist? Net pe ate to bht hai but I want someone jo tried and tested ho. Please if anyone can recommend. I can’t take this nonsense anymore

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Anonymous

Hopefully

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Anonymous

How and where did you find these people!

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Anonymous

Okay

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Anonymous

Wherever else.
Everyone are here. Just connect.

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Anonymous

Hey… Just relax everything will fall in place with time 😇
Anyway if you wanna talk then feel free to connect.

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Anonymous

I dont feel like working on myself. Weight badta jaa ra hai aur kuch sahi nai ho ra. Career bhi pta nai kahan ja ra hai.

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Anonymous

Hmmmm… I am listening

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Anonymous

Thanks for listening. Uppar se bura lagta hai that iss age mein to hona chaiyye tha na koi. Shaadi k lie bhi kli rishta ata hai to unn ladko ka jinke lie I am the last option. Mujhe aaj taq life mein kabhi itna neecha feel nai hua. Koi aldka mujhe samjh ata hai, use request bhejho to decline kardeta hai. Mujhe samjh nai ata ki 4mahine baad I’ll turn 31. Aur ese hee chalta raha to mein khudh barbaad karlungi apne aap ko galat salat soch soch ke

@kai_06

Arree tumko galat kyun sochna hai someone has been written for you then why you are so desperate or rush for the marriage if you do so and then it goes worst what will you do then

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Anonymous

If it’s just about having a conversation that makes you spit out ur fears/problems, I’m all my ears. We all r here because somwhere around, we are either depressed, broke, alone or whsoever u call it. I’ll feel delighted if I could make u feel happy till any extent. You may DM anonymously or whatever suits u, I don’t have much idea about the app though

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Anonymous

Thanks yaar. I agree that we all are going thru something or the other and today is one of thode days where I don’t see any hope. I feel alone, bad, miserable, don’t have the energy to believe in the good and just hate the fact that my life is a mess. I am never happy and nobody should feel this way.

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This is just a low-day,nothing else. It will never the same. Just have faith

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I commented anonymously by mistake, “If its just about…”

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Anonymous

Hi we are here to speak to you. There are certain phases in life where you need to stand strong and get through it. If you wanna talk it out m I’m here everyone is here

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Hey!!! Lets talk

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1.) You don’t even consider it worth trying talking to people, as you assume everything will end up the same way as happened in the past, which is certainly your mind telling you based on your past experiences but that is done by your memory to protect you from further hurt but at the same time you should be the one controlling your brain. Memories are there so that we can take better decisions but staying traumatized is only in your hand.
Risk to hoga, hamesha hoga. Ya to baat kro kisi se, or possibility 50-50 h , success or failure ki or ya fir aise hi loneliness me jeeti raho, ye tumhare uper h.

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I agree yaar risk to humeshaa hoga. Par risk to lena padega wo bhi samjh ata hai but agar how will you justify a feeling where you feel ki hona chaiyye yar sukh dukh baantne k lie koi but andarr se mann hee nai karta kisi se bhi baat kane ka? How should I get overcome this bullshit! I want to be normal and be able to talk to a person. I know myself and I am fairly smart, funny and a kind person by heart. But ye jo ho ra hai jahan sab pta hote hue bhi kuch kar nahin paari, to kayaa karun.

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Vishal @vishalll

Hey lets talk…
I posted anonymouzly by mistake i can’t see your username . Ping me you can share whatever you feel we both may find a new friend

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Anonymous

Thanks. Very well put!

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I guess you are free in your world so just enjoy that space and if your 30 so what does it mean that you should be married and all stuff i don’t think so, and btw when the marriage is written in your destiny or fate it will happen don’t need to worry if all are getting married or something and if wanted someone should be there to talk you then you have to give chance but firstly analysis they actions & words then open up with them so it would be better for you and btw your parents might be searching a groom for you i guess so😅😅

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Anonymous

Yes they are searching😌 but they are tired of searching now

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Anonymous

Aree toh ek kaam karo require list bhejo kya hai aapki 😅😄

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Padha likha ho-like acha padha likha-good qualifications wala, khush rehna jaanta ho aur acha insaan ho. Bas.

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Acha aur kuch requirement list chahiye hai aapko?

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Anonymous

U can talk me on WhatsApp nd calling also 6350236388 I’m a gud person

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Anonymous

Don’t stress over things not in your control, things that are meant to happen will happen eventually. Live a little!!

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If you are fine with friends who are around 28 male and you are from Mumbai let’s try to meet if you are interested in making new friends

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