Hi new here

I had to breakup a 6 yr old relationship because the guy cheated for 2 years all the while he showed love but in breadcrumbs. I want someone with whom I can heal. 
I don't wanna fall weak and text him back. So if somebody is in a similar situation, can we just heal together? Keep each other updated throughout our process. Cry to each other maybe. 

I wouldn’t mind the crying together 🫂

Break ups are the most painful experience someone can go through. I am currently trying to cope with one myself. ￼

Don't you feel anything suspicious during 2 years. Must be long distance 

3am Thoughts

So I download this app to get some advise without being judge 
So I have boyfriend who love me soo much and I do the same. And we been in relationship for almost 3 year now. He is little bit slow on romance and dating thing but I understand. But it been years already and I feel like he should get things by his own now. I always have to make plan and go on dates even though he don’t talk much, I do talking and he Listen but sometime I also want to hear him. 
Now they say communication is the key but evertime I tried to communicate he end up not talking with me for day and next day he come to me and act every thing is normal, at first I thought I should give him some time and he will come and talk about it but he will never mention about it 
Now they are some things that I value in my life and when that get disturb I try to talk about it with him and he end up getting the wrong idea even though I was just trying to explain. It just too frustrating. And also too tried. What should I do ???? 

Relationships

Hey!
A few days back I posted here about my breakup. We broke up mutually, because he said there will be problems in future, his parents wouldn't agree for intercaste marriage. I said let's break up then.
 Today I got his text saying that he wants to continue the relationship but not sure about marriage. What should I do?? I love him.

Boyfriend

Hi so I'm 27 and I've been thinking about marriage lately and I haven't been in a single relationship till now and my family is asking me to get married and I don't believe in arranged marriages due to bad experiences and I can't get into arranged marriages just by meeting this guy for a few months and then get married to him and it's completely strange to me so i thought Id get married to someone I know and I have one of my friends who likes me and we spoke to each other for a month he is in USA and then I put a stop to it cos I thought I was rushing into things I mean my parents got to know about it and they said okay cos they know him from very long and he's well settled and I don't know everyone rushed me at a time including the guy so I thought instead of saying yes when I'm not sure it's better to say No. I don't know if he's the guy I usually don't have clarity and he dint text me or call me since then it's like he doesn't even care l. I also felt like he's not compatible but since that day I haven't stopped thinking of him. Everyone were mad at me cos I ruined this but thing is I just want to know what I did was right or wrong and I don't know if I should talk to him again or should I wait for him to talk cos I already texted him once and we spoke normally but seems like the guy doesn't care anymore. I don't know what I should do. I'm so done with this marriage and all. I have anxiety and may be due to this I am getting triggered and I'm ruining everything or I don't know. Im just tired

Marriage

I met a guy around March last year...we started seeing each other...in these 10 months he has ended things between us quite a multiple number of times...he ends things in the morning saying it is not working out...and at night comes back in night saying sorry as he was not in good mood...once he randomly stopped talking to me...I tried contacting him not replied me back not took my calls...removed me from everywhere and now after 4 months he texts me that he has committment issues and wants to get back...I don't know what happened to me and I forgive him and we started seeing each other again...and not to my surprise he again stops talking to me and now again comes back...I have tried having the conversation with him that he should decide whether he wants me in his life or not...everytime he says yes he wants and again cuts me off from him life whenever he wants...I don't know what should I do.

Long Distance Relationship

I am very upset & crying & missing someone very badly. We started talking just 7 days back. In the second day itself he told me that he is very much committed to his girlfriend. I had a recent breakup n later patch so I was already feeling down.  we visited each others apartments as friends as we live alone n it's hard to live alone during this pandemic times. Yesterday early in the morning he got panic attacks n so came to my apartment to sleep calmly. We ended up kissing. We decided not to ever communicate with each other in future in order to not ruin our relationships further. So we deleted each others contact number n unfollowed each others social media accounts. 
I was unable to move on so I called him in the Yesterday afternoon itself. But he refused to talk. N later went back home to his gf saying he is missing him too much n he wants to marry her. 
I don't know what r my feelings for him? Do I love him? Should I get involved any further if he calls again? M I missing him? I Really don't know anything.  But m crying since yesterday. 
He is a singer n in a good job. So I cant help n keep watching his videos in you tube. 
Is it love? How should I move on? He is clear that he loves his girlfriend. My astrologer says that I should not get involved with him. 
But I really liked him 😭 I may be wanted to marry him secretly.


What do we call a situation where one is doing it all to make his/her life settle up in a positive way but somehow things are not working out in his/her favour!
Let's take for example.
Last December I was planning to quit my job by March end 2022. But in March I met a guy, set up by my family for marriage reasons. I was fine and I went ahead. Surprisingly he wanted to consider this alliance but also wanted to take time to know me. I was fine too with his decision. I decided not to quit my job soon. I was expecting for us to come to the decision in 3 months since families were involved and also I wanted to look for another job In another city where he was actually staying so I needed buffer time to prepare all this. We talked and decided to set the target max for 3 months and we will come to the decision. Somehow things didn't go as planned. By the 3rd month he got busy with a huge project and we hardly had any talks. So I just let it flow on its own. By 4 months my whole family popped up with questions about our progress and I just bluffed them to get more time and talk to him about the decision. In month 4 he came back and surprisingly he too wanted to make the final decision. We fixed the date to meet. All was set and one of my family members had a medical emergency and so we had to skip our meet-up. This time 2 weeks passed by and our touch was less since I was busy with my family but somehow we kept in touch over mail. Once the medical emergency sorted I got back to him to plan our meet-up again. And we did so for next month. But till that time he was highly affected by his work stress and he was constantly falling sick. He took tension over himself about everything because even his family is after his decision. Now it's our 5th month and I will be out of the city for the next 2 weeks for work purposes which means another delay. 
I'm so frustrated with this because such delays are not done to any of us on purpose but whatever we are planning things are going opposite. Above that my family  started to pressurize me. So overall, I'm stuck in my stressful  job and this marriage thing is not coming to any conclusion feels like I'm cursed. It's the life that is not falling in place what's my fault in it? What should I understand our of it? Why I' m punished?

Spirituality

Im feeling like i can't live without him ...  I had blocked him... But i don't know why it hurt so much and i just msged him after a no contact period of about 2 weeks. Right now, im waiting for his response. I should not have msged him... big mistake..  I hate how he is making him feel. I don't know how i got into this mess... But i can't forget him. I don't want to love him. Oh god just let me forget him. Make me not love him. I feel so miserable. Just why don't i just forget all my memories with him... They make me cry everyday... We could have been so good together....i hate you honestly.... I have been feeling so dead.... just why?? Maybe i should delete those msges and just sleep... Maybe i will feel better tomorrow.... Maybe?

Cheating

He compared me to his ex, I hate that. I hate it in general when people compare to other people. It reminds me of them, how nothing I do I really good enough and how I can always be as good this person and that person. But this time, Kai said it like I’m a terrible person. I asked how and he hasn’t spoken to me since. Alcohol has been my best friend since, I miss him. And I think I love him, he told me he loves me, but if you really love someone would you ignore them? I’m not entirely sure, my parents love was harsh and sometimes cruel, they said they loved me tho. I don’t know what to feel, I’m not going to beg for his attention, but gosh I just miss having someone to talk to. I wish he would tell me why he did that. Did I do something wrong? And if so what? 

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