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Hi, my sister got married one month ago, it was an arrange marriage and I was also part of selecting that guy. My sister seems extremely unhappy and we saw significant changes in her behaviour. I multiple times tried to talk to her but she never feel comfortable to talk about the problem. 2 days back she told that she had a fight with her husband and he told that this marriage will not last for 6 months. We went to her home to understand and discuss but her mother in law insulted us and told her never come back. I feel guilty for putting her in this situation. What should we do?

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Donโ€™t blame yourself, and if she is not comfortable with her,she should take a big decision

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Bhavna P. @bhavna_pande


I empathize with the challenges your sister and family are currently facing. Itโ€™s disheartening to see your loved ones struggling through this difficult time. Going into self-guilt wonโ€™t benefit anyone; instead, focus on being a pillar of support. Encourage your sister to share her feelings when sheโ€™s ready, emphasizing your unwavering support.

Understanding the overall perspective and chronology of events is crucial in navigating this situation. Act accordingly to provide the necessary support.

If you need any further support during this tough time, I am always here as your friendly counseling psychologist.

Take care,
Counseling Psychologist Bhavna Pande

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Mitr @sabka_mitr


Isme apki galti nahi hai mitrโ€ฆsasural ki galti hai.Unko ache se treat karna chahiye apni bahu koโ€ฆye galat baat haiโ€ฆpolice mai complaint kijiye mitr


Itโ€™s not your fault. Sometimes shit happens. Accept it and let your sister decide her future.


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