Hi.
My ex is an idiot. Who will never be able to grow as a person. Not because he cannot but because he doesnāt want to. Also he is a narcissist. Now I donāt know what actually is a narcissist but I Googled it and I could relate to every single thing he said. He always praised his ownself. Sent selfies of his ownself all the time, some of them honestly were very ew since he is not that great looking. He would praise his ownself and his family like they were the centre of universe and the whole universe revolved around him and his family. He is such a superficial person and doesnāt have a brain of his own. He has this whole idea of how he wants his relationship with the other person and this is how it must be. He doesnāt wanna know what the other person wants and thinks he is right all the time. Plus he is a big time liar. The biggest liar I have come across in my whole life. He wasted so much of my time. I on the other hand tried my best to please him even when my gut was telling me something is not right. And then when I stopped pleasing his narcissist self, he left me out of nowhere without even giving me a proper explanation. Making me feel like Iām the bad guy. Now he in his mind thinks of himself as someone who is mighty and is very smart and thinks that Iām the bad guy. While in actuality his narcissism and stupidness caused me so much pain and honestly to be very honest it still fills me up with rage that he still thinks he has made the right decision. And is not getting his karma back. I swear if this guy didnāt get his karma back iāmma stop believing in a lot of shyt and Iāll be having a reason for that. What do you guys think?
Simran @st1199
Hi!
There are some people like these who think the whole world is about them and we should adjust in that rather they donāt even care if someone leaves as they are very much self-centered. It was best for you that he broke up with you and you donāt have to tolerate all this. I hope you are happy about it?
Also, everything else is considerable since you faced things but letās not talk about being smart/not smart. If you didnāt like it, you could have revoked and I hope you told that on his face too about the āewā thing and if not, you shouldnāt say things like these.
Karma does happen but it will not come to you to ask or tell you. It will happen whenever it has to happen. If you have so much against him and didnāt get the opportunity to tell him, go ahead and take out your frustration. Even if he doesnāt care or will let go, you will feel better by taking out and he somewhere inside he will know what he did.
Dude. I never said I didnāt like any of those pictures, of course I did because I was in love. What I was trying to tell that itās a sign of self obsession. Isnāt it? Also sometimes people are ānot smartā by choice, didnāt I say that in the beginning that he will never be able to grow as a person not because he cannot be because he doesnāt want to. Please donāt be so harsh and quick to judge the other person. We are all here for a cause. I feel the pain thatās Why tried expressing my Feelings.
Simran @st1199
I am sorry if it sounded rude, and by no means I was judging.
I read everything that you wrote and even understood it. Thatās why I said that since he was your BF you would have liked it thatās why you would have never said anything to him but calling someone pictures ew isnāt right, is what I am trying to tell you and it may be helpful for future purpose. And yes, as I mentioned some people are self-centered. And sometimes itās good to let them know and you never know how it can benefit the other person even in the slightest manner.
And, sorry again if it sounded harsh. You can and are welcome to share whatever you feel like. We are here for you! š
Thanks friend :) I will take your advice :)
