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crruccpwjnxuowg... @buoyant_bean_2

Hi, my bf has a friend who is like a sister to him.I trust him 100percent when he says that. Because I’ve seen his interaction with her. But I don’t trust her. I feel like she is a little bit jealous of me. But I’m not sure. She asked how he is as a bf and I said he is very good but she didn’t believe it at all. And she asked if he gets mad at me. I said no and she said he is always mean to us( meaning his classmates) but he is sweet to you. She always complains about her ex disturbing her to my bf. Because my bf set her up with one of friends(who is her ex now).why would she complain about her ex to my bf?please someone help me sort out my thoughts. Are they just brother and sister?

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crruccpwjnxuowg... @buoyant_bean_2

But she also said to him that she supports me more than him.and she supports me sometimes. Idk it’s confusing

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Anonymous

Okay , should I confront my bf about this or should I just be cool with it . Because he tells me that she is a very sweet person.

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But they’ve been friends for 3 years that’s why I feel bad

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But also few things suggest that she looks at him as a brother. She gives those disgusting looks to him(the kind of look that a sibling gives). She kept complaining about him. Am I just overthinking?

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Harmanpreet K. @harmanpree...

Hey mate,
I totally understand and empathise with you. See, this is a proven fact that females are jealous of each other. Before taking any step I would you to just sit back and analyse and observe everything from a distance. Many a times, we try to relate things according to the beliefs that we hold in our subconscious.
Moreover, if you trust partner then I think that after observing everything you can simply discuss about your thoughts and insecurities related to this issue.
Don’t worry, if you need any further guidance on this, then you ping me in my chat box.
Regards,
Psychologist Harmanpreet K

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