Hi π
Itβs my first time here hehe so this will be my first post.
Uhm, I havenβt been in a relationship since birth, just have some crushes of course (and most of them are girls) but Iβm already mid 20βs and I donβt but I just wanted suddenly to be in a relationship (I know itβs not easy) maybe because during this lockdown Iβve been watching some romantic kdramas and movies that Iβm picturing myself what if I have someone like those couples HAHAHA
Iβve got some suitors back then who asked me on a date and agreed to come but then I find myself after couple of weeks loosing interests on those guys. I felt like Iβm not good in keeping people :(
So now this, I have a college classmates who had a crush on me and even helped me with my thesis back then which eventually stopped since I think he thought I took him for granted.
He is now chatting me on messenger and talking about things, I donβt know his motive but Iβm still replying to his messages, but thereβs one time that I didnβt reply after a week, I saw his tweet saying that if someone wants to play a game they should end it not leaving itβs opponent halfway through. After reading that tweet I let couple of days passed by and reply to his messages HAHA I really donβt know what he wants from me if he just wants to be friends or what.
Heβs also asking me out after the lockdown but I told him that I will go only if we have one of my friend to come with us. Iβm uncomfortable being around with guys alone. hmm.
Hello theree! I think weβve all been there and felt these emotions. I want to date someone too since the past 2 years BUT I donβt find anyone with whom I bond.
and also during the lockdown, I feel extra lonely, so I can understand what youβre feeling.
About your college classmate, itβs okay to meet after the lockdown and itβs okay to go with a friend till you donβt trust him and feel comfortable.
Iβd say what I say to all my friends: Take it slow and see where things go!!!