Hi ๐
Itโs my first time here hehe so this will be my first post.
Uhm, I havenโt been in a relationship since birth, just have some crushes of course (and most of them are girls) but Iโm already mid 20โs and I donโt but I just wanted suddenly to be in a relationship (I know itโs not easy) maybe because during this lockdown Iโve been watching some romantic kdramas and movies that Iโm picturing myself what if I have someone like those couples HAHAHA
Iโve got some suitors back then who asked me on a date and agreed to come but then I find myself after couple of weeks loosing interests on those guys. I felt like Iโm not good in keeping people :(
So now this, I have a college classmates who had a crush on me and even helped me with my thesis back then which eventually stopped since I think he thought I took him for granted.
He is now chatting me on messenger and talking about things, I donโt know his motive but Iโm still replying to his messages, but thereโs one time that I didnโt reply after a week, I saw his tweet saying that if someone wants to play a game they should end it not leaving itโs opponent halfway through. After reading that tweet I let couple of days passed by and reply to his messages HAHA I really donโt know what he wants from me if he just wants to be friends or what.
Heโs also asking me out after the lockdown but I told him that I will go only if we have one of my friend to come with us. Iโm uncomfortable being around with guys alone. hmm.
Hello theree! I think weโve all been there and felt these emotions. I want to date someone too since the past 2 years BUT I donโt find anyone with whom I bond.
and also during the lockdown, I feel extra lonely, so I can understand what youโre feeling.
About your college classmate, itโs okay to meet after the lockdown and itโs okay to go with a friend till you donโt trust him and feel comfortable.
Iโd say what I say to all my friends: Take it slow and see where things go!!!