Hi
I’m married, it was a love marriage. Went against family for i, I’m slowly starting to regret it. I’m unable to do a lot of things I like. Financially I’m being held back by my husband. It’s very annoying. No shopping, travels nothing. He expects me not to expect theses things from him, only coz he doesn’t like. He’s unable to provide for a life I like, always laid back and not taking a charge to change the lifestyle by himself nor me.
What do I do?
You choosed him and loved him, if he also loved you then just talk to him , he might understand, if he still don’t understand means he is stubborn and taken you for granted
Tried talking, didn’t work
Do you have any kids?
Nope
anuj @anujvohra
Try to do shopping yourself then, online shopping should work. Take charge of your life yourself and make it. Are you working currently?I am sure you can make difference accordingly
That isn’t acceptable as well, he feels I waste money. I’m working, yet I should be transparent on my spending’s.
He doesn’t let me. He thinks it’s waste of money. Yes I do work, yet o have to answerable to my spending’s
anuj @anujvohra
I think you can come to a common ground. Do tell him that you will be sending some part of it. Also check if past has something to do with it…
Did u love him for money? You only told that he is sufering financially what else he can do? Do u make him to take loans and take you to shopping? Just be supportive to him… be supportive to him in every inch of life. You go start and work too… give him courage and motivation such that he can do greater things. And in these social media we are seeing these kind of princess treatment and all…are these there back when love was true? Just work on yourself before asking him… you are a lady so earn yourself and do shopping.
Please refer to the complete chat before speaking. I work and earn, I have my own business as well. Yet I’m not allowed to do what I like. It’s not about princess treatment, it’s pretty basic. I want a certain lifestyle which isn’t a wrong thing. I’m asking to work towards it together. Just coz I should support him doesn’t mean I should leave behind what I like and suffer. I come from a certain lifestyle before marriage yet I left everything for him.
Friend apke shaadi ko kitne saal huye hai
2.5 yrs
Hmmm aur ye dikkat wo apko abhi kr rahe hai ya pehle sai aur financial issues kaise hai like unki job hai wo chali gayi ya koi loan liya hai unho ne
Abhi
Aur wo khud bhi apne man ka shopping nahi kr rahe kya
