hi,
Iām from germany, so please donāt judge my english.
I found this page after having a bit of a hard time. I have been single for almost 3 years now, which isnāt the worst thing. I love being single, but i miss the feeling having somebody by your side. Having someone you can trust. I just miss itā¦
But thatās a sideeffect of why I feel lonely.
My friends all leave me. Most of the time I think itās because of me, because I often say things that donāt come out right.
One of my friends is a new mom, so she has obviously not the time like she had before. An other one just slept with my crush. Then there is my old roommate who moved to another city and our friendship is falling apart and we just get angry at each other all the time. But the worst is that my best friend just came to my city again because of work for some months, but he has no time for me. He always has to learn or likes to play poker. I understand that, but Iām so lonely that I get angry when he says he needs to learn and has no time.
I donāt know if iām just being insecure. I donāt know if iām too much. I donāt know if Iām allowed to be sadmad. I overtrink all the time and I know it has destroyed some things already.
Iām just so sad and lonely all the time and so disappointedā¦
and I hate it!
Hey i get where you getting at and you donāt need to invalidate your feelings or even your thoughts we are all humans and things just get hard to go with at certain points especially when youāre all by yourself it doesnāt makes you ātoo muchā firstly i think you should try to talk these things out with your friends explicitly about how badly is this affecting you and it doesnāt needs to be giving you 24 hour attention just a bit of talking every now and then however they find it convenient as far as for you donāt try to hard to manage how you feel somedays you just have to let shit flow and flow with yes even the sad ones feel your shit but donāt loose it and ik it easier said than done but i have this ideology in life which i swear by and has helped me so much in life in general " be okay with the things that happened and the things that didnāt " feel free to write back if you want to talk more about it.š
Okay basically you need people around you to talk so that you donāt feel lonely which makes you feel more frustrated soo talk to people here on this community not only about your feelings but also about random things so that your focus is shifted & have some positive energy around you
Everyone goes through this phaseā¦and i can understand exactly how it feels but donāt panic buddyā¦try to share things with your siblings or if you donāt find it effective then watch animesā¦it will definitely encourage you tackle the situation you are in.ššJust donāt think of relying on some other personā¦because it doesnāt work dudeā¦sometimes even though u possess all these things, if feel lonelyā¦so feeling will come whether u r still in relationship or notā¦so try to overcome this situation yourselfā¦ā
