Hi,
I’m about to turn 27 in precisely 6 days. My girlfriend of 6 months ghosted me about a month ago. I tried staying calm and tried to understand may be this has to do something with the lockdown and everyone’s stressed but she doesn’t want to talk to me or discuss literally anything.
Everytime I call or text that would make her upset and she would say… ‘it was all fine until I got your text now’. This would kill me.
Honestly, I was down for a month as hell overthinking every possible fixation to this problem that I have because we really had a nice time on a trip just before the lockdown started and we couldn’t see eachother after that.
She used to be a very courageous and sensible woman and now I feel like I don’t even know her.
We haven’t spoken to eachother since a week now… I don’t know how am I leading my life with this.
The thing is I miss her so much also I feel like I’ve lost her already.
These thoughts about her is painfully terrible.
What do I do?
the person i like hasn’t texted back in 2 weeks, I’m very worried about her. I’m honestly not sure what I would do if I lost her. We’re in a pandemic and everything feels surreal. Idk dude
You’ll be just fine brother. Irrespective of the situation remember the most important person here is you and nobody else. Sending you good vibes ❤️
Be it whatever situation, it’s not correct for someone to just ghost you out of nowhere. Same happened with me, my best friend (we were close since a year) ghosted me 1 month back. I tried to contact him ONCE just to see if it was possible to mend things but he gave a very weird response so I decided that I will not let my self-respect go down. Maybe you can try the same thing. Try sorting it out ONCE and if she doesn’t seem interested, then seriously, fuck it. It’s not your fault. Her los.
Thanks for those words. Almost felt like… this was exactly what I wanted to hear.
Quick question: How do we know that ONCE is enough?
Bad thing about 'The Good Times" are they don’t stay with you forever.
I’m glad it helped you.
We know that once is enough when we don’t get the response we expected to get from them. You get to know if there’s hope or not. You’ll know.
Good thing about “The Bad Time” are they don’t stay with you forever, too.
