I’m a grown 21yrs old girl and I’m going through some issues related to my romantic relationship. I was accused by my partner that I wasn’t giving him enough attention and that he felt ‘alone’ in the relationship. However, I’ve tried all I can to show him that I love him. I shall agree that I wasn’t able to give him a lot of attention because I come from a very fucked up family and I think I’m dealing with depression too. So, my partner decided we should break up but says that he still loves me and cares about me which I do too. But he’s not willing to give us another chance. I figured what he’s doing is called manipulation. I also know what should be done to get over him but I can’t because I’m still so hopeful. So so so hopeful.