Hi I’m 23 yr old. I was in a relationship with a guy aged 25 . We started off by being good friends and around 3 weeks ago he proposed to me for marriage. I accepted his request. I had talked to my family and they supported me. Last week I found out that he was cheating on me and his family fixed his marriage somewhere else. I’ve been seeing his posts and everything, he’s getting married to some other girl that his family picked up for him. We haven’t officially broken up. Idk what to do. I’m ruined. I can’t continue going to work as we are in the same office 😭😭😭😭😭
Oh damn! Have you confronted him? Regarding this. What’s is he saying
He’s not saying anything. I’m asking him to breakup with me. He’s not ready to do that. I’m asking him not to marry he said he is going to marry the other girl his parents picked up for him
Move on yourself. First find a new job and then you can move out. Take care
Stop seeing his post, block him from everywhere, talk to your friends, don’t isolate yourself, If you want someone to listen and noone is there, you can share with me
I stopped seeing the posts but I can’t block his contact as I work under him in his team
Then start spending time with friends to distract yourself, healing is a process which takes time . If you want you can ping me to share this pain
Our friends are mutual😔. I’m planning to give in my resignation tomorrow 😔
Don’t take such decisions, do you want to talk, you can talk to me , but don’t take such decisions which you will regret in future
You are just 23… i know it’s hurtful… leave him… block him on social media… have a professional relation with him…
you have so much to do for yourself… thank god… that you are not going to marry him… he is piece of sh!t he is not good for you…
Be financially independent… grow and focus on yourself… you ll get what you deserve… he is not for you…leave him… and why are you asking him to breakup with you?? Do it yourself… tell him that you have nothing do with him now… and you don’t want a relationship with him…
If you can’t have professional relationship with him… then resign and find another job… it’s not that hard to find a job… but it will be hard to see him daily and then moving on from him will be much harder
I asked to get transferred to other branch. I need to hear from them . If I do I’ll hopefully fly back to my home country 😔
Hmm… all the best… it’s just a tough time… you ll get through it gracefully… be strong🤗🤗
Heyaa do you want to talk!?
