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โš•๏ธDepression

๐Ÿง‘Anxiety

๐Ÿ˜ฐStress

๐Ÿ’—Relationships

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Anonymous

hi im 22 and iv been in an online relationship with a boy for about 5 years now the 6 year which is now has been on and off and hell call me up saying i love yoou and i need you and wake up in the morning and leave the call and wont even say i love you back , yesterday particularly he said he missed me so much and wanted to spend time i agrreed bot after two hours he was coldd and distant but at night he wanted to sleep on call with me, so i asked him if he was drunk and he said he was jus sad and on new medication, so yea he says i love you and its later replaced with i was drunk or sad i know u might its clear that theres nothing left but iv loved this boy for so long im saving to see hjim he lives in a different country i feel really stupid my friends dont wanna talk about this no one does i feel alone, but its happened so many times that i feel almost numb but still over the edge that i might get replaced i just love him im sorry it hurts

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@sohapareek12
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Just leave that guy
Try to move on
Try to avoid him
Or block him
Do something productive
I knw its very very hard but its possible
And good for you
You deserve way better
There is nothing left to talk to that guy
Bcz he is just using u when he wants

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@vivankash
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Just try one time and put everything in this time and still if he doesnโ€™t Try than leave him by saying nothing, no explanation or anything. This way you will have a mental peace of voluntarily leaving the bad person and this will make him wonder what happened. This will kill him probably

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