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Remy @iamnotacishetwhitema...

Hi! Iā€™d like a bit of advice for friend issuesā€¦so, Iā€™ve always sort of been the target of my friend group (there are four of us in it). Recently, someone Iā€™ll call V, whoā€™s very close to me in this friend group, has began to stand up for me. However, my other friends, who weā€™ll call A and C, have been very upset with me, specifically A. A gets very angry at me when I donā€™t FaceTime with her (she requests every night) and last night I really didnā€™t want to.
My keyboard was broken, though, and it wouldnā€™t let me tell her that, so I kept on just typing what I could out of what I wanted to say, which was usually just, ā€œI I D K Jt iygKā€ Kind of thing.

V got very angry at A randomly, and on an adrenaline high, said they donā€™t want to be friends with her anymore.
Weā€™ve been friends since first/second grade, so this isnā€™t just a friendship you walk out of. Iā€™m very worried about all of this. Iā€™m trying to give A and C more chances to change their toxic ways, but it isnā€™t really working. I need advice, please.

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First of allā€¦it seems like u kind of like V and maybe they do tooā€¦and what I have to say about A is that definitely they are being toxic but still want to talk with uā€¦were they always like thisā€¦if not then u need to do some work to find out girl

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Remy @iamnotacishetwhitema...

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A has always been kind of weird, but it got especially bad this last year. I might like Vā€¦Iā€™m not really sure. Thank you.

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Leave them. Sorry but yeah time to move onā€¦ This wont work. It is nt a societal pressure.

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Remy @iamnotacishetwhitema...

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Iā€™ll consider it, it just seems hard since theyā€™re really my only friends.

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