Hi! I’am 24 year old female who have no friends and who never was in relationship. I’m quet shy and i think noone could understand me. I don’t have very good relationship with my family but i know i would miss them one day because i would be alone, also i’m comeing in term with fact that they are humans, they messed me up and i would never forgive them but they mess themselves as well and someone mess them too. If i was lucky to have good parents my life would be better, i wouldn’t feel so powerless. :( Thanks for reading.

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Arabinda @auro



I don’t know you. I have never met you. But you know what? I can already tell you that you are an amazing woman. No, no I am not just saying just for the sake of it or make you fell good. The very fact that you let your feelings out here already shows how courageous you are.

I am 25 years old, so I have pretty much seen the same amount of this world as you. Trust me, when I say this. No one. NO ONE has the perfect parents. Not even you will be a perfect parent to your children one day. But you imagine a world where everyone, everything, every situation is perfect. What a dull and boring world it will be?

Imperfection is what makes life so beautiful. I am so glad that you have come to terms that they are human and you have forgiven them. You are fighting everyday? Aren’t you? You are a fighter. I don’t think a powerless person would able to.

It’s all about perspective dear. Stop blaming yourself or your parents if you feel you are a mess. There is no good coming out of it. Instead think about how can you work out and improve and make the next 24 years of your life the best ever. And I know you will.

And when it comes to not having friends. Hey, I am already one :)

Take care. Lots of love. God bless you. <3

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