Hi,
I wish I could be more self-confident. No matter how hard I try, I am never good enough. Whether it is cooking, taking care of my home or even at work, I always fall short. I used to think that not everyone can be good at everything, but how can it be possible to not be good at anything? Every day, my feeling of inadequacy keeps increasing. How do I turn my life around?
Jafar Abbas @jafarabbas33
You should try out different things! Like programming, hacking, knitting, cycling, anything! There are a lot of things you can try to keep you exited and occupied. For example, programming, photo editing, video editing, etc usually is very helpful in keeping me exited, occupied and gives me a feeling of accomplishment. You are never too young or never too old to learn new things. But you die the day you stop learning.
May you have a wonderful life😃
Thank you so much. That is great advice.
Thinking about what you said, I find that if I try out new things, even though I do find a certain degree of happiness in doing those things, I feel like I need some form of validation to boost my confidence. For example, when I write or sing, I like doing it, but unless I get some kind of appreciation, I find that it does nothing to improve my self confidence levels. Also, I get so scared of being snubbed, that I refrain from putting myself out there. In short, fear of failure keeps me from trying out new things. How do I deal with this constant need for appreciation?
Hi,
Yes dear friend
Not everyone can be good at everything
Not everyone is perfect
Infact no one is perfect
All have flaws
N all make mistakes…
N none of us is born good enough at doing things
We all learn it slowly slowly…
Did u know to write when you were 5 years old???
I guess no
But today you can write so well
All i mean is things like cooking ,housekeeping
All develops with practice…
Keep trying
Keep improving
Most imp dnt compare urself with anyone
N just with urself…
See,
What you can do to increase your confidence is watch urself…
As in track your progress…
Suppose you are setting bedsheet on bed
Keep a track of how much time did u take
Is it well set
Mark urself
You will surely notice positive changes over a period of time…
N never accept
That u cannot do it
Ofcourse you can do it.
You can do everything u want…
There are so many aids available.
You can check videos on youtube learn new things try it out n feel good…
Good luck…
God bless you…
U have it in you…
Let not your confidence shatter.
Take care.
Thank you for showing faith in me. I will definitely try to do as suggested!
