Hiā¦ I really need adviceā¦ Iām so lost and confused. Iām 19 years old and i have a younger brother and a disabled mother that are counting on meā¦ my mom has been in and out of the hospital but now shes finally came back for good bc her insurance wouldnāt cover her going physical rehabā¦ I have to do everything for herā¦ And yesā¦ Iām slackingā¦ I dont bathe herā¦ but I change her, I listen to her screamsā¦ Iāve spent 2 years trying to get her better. But my mother is goneā¦ sheās a different person and I despise herā¦ she begs and pleads for cigeratesā¦ when i tried to make her quitā¦ And i need the money so i work all the timeā¦ leaving my brother here aloneā¦ we recently got kicked outā¦ And now are in my grnapdas camperā¦ my papa, uncle, mom, brother and meā¦ all in a camperā¦ I have so many panic attacks from crying bc itās so small. There are creepy men and Iām afraid Iām gonna be raped. Iām so suicidal and my brother is beginning toā¦ itās so scaryā¦ but long story shortā¦ my mother is alot to handle. My uncle helps. But takes advantage and takes my moms pills and lives off usā¦ my sister does the sameā¦ my aunt offered me a one bedroom house for $500 a monthā¦ me and my brother said we can share the roomā¦ if my mom comes she will sleep in the living room in her medical bedā¦ And my uncle sleep there from time to timeā¦ but i canāt even afford $500 a monthā¦ I get paid 10hr but the people are mean and never give me hrs expect the weekends bc no one will work it. I just am so confused. I wish it was just me and my brotherā¦ I would movein so quicklyā¦ butā¦ Iām only 19ā¦ no one will help me do taxesand I only havw 2 days to do them and have no idea how toā¦ everyone is talking about getting custody of my brother when my mom diesā¦ but not even trying to get her better. I Love my momā¦ but im trying to think of how to protect my brotherā¦ I wanted to go into the military but put it on hold for themā¦ i boughta car and i donāt even get to use itā¦ my uncle uses it for deliveries for his jobā¦ but again I need him for my mom so i gotto do itā¦ my sister will come over and sleep here even tho she has a nice place to live and take our food, our bedā¦ I wanna live with my bfā¦ I was before we got kicked outā¦ but idk where to goā¦ vs everyone hasbad credit or me (not having any) Iām lostā¦
Iām going to brutally honest here with you. You sound like you are surrounded by lazy people who are living just because. If your priority is to take care of your brother, take him and take your car and leaveā¦ you leave your mom with your papa, uncle and aunt. They are grown ups, they can take care of your mom or at least find a way to take care of her. What you need to take care of is yourself and your brother.
I recently rented a house! And im happy but my uncle is sad bc he cant comeā¦ And my sister living free off meā¦ And i let her stay bc of my brotherā¦ And she so mean and tells me Iām decorating wrongā¦ butā¦ she makes my brother happy
Itās alright. At least you have some peace of mind. What is the point of having siblings if they donāt give us hard time š
Iām glad things are working out for you. Keep us posted! Have a great week!
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