Hi
I had a relationship of 10 years ..n now we r at the of marriage now..and he broke up with me.   I feel so bad... soo alone.. we broke up in july this year but we still talk sometimes.. but i dont know what to do .. i feel miserable.. 

He calls me sometimes..   should i break all the contact.. with him.. I m confused.. 

Hey.. I understand what you are going through. I have been in a similar situation. Believe me when I say "You will get through this". 
You can talk to your family or close friends about your feelings if you think they'll stand by you. 
Do not keep it all inside you cos that might break you. 

I don't know if this helped. Hope you feel better. 

Dear I am also going through same situation.. Please ignore all the things and keep urself busy with some work that will give you some relax.

Breakup

Me and this guy finally cut things off between us. We had been talking off and on for a year, but these past few weeks I just found no happiness talking to him anymore, and it seemed like he didnt either. We spent maybe 2 weeks like this but today ended things. It is sad, we did so much together and opened eachother to new things, but the connection left. Its weird. But it was easy, were both fine. I just wanted to talk about it. And again, I had been feeling distant for like 2 weeks, but what really encouraged me to break up was because my old friend had text me today, and I thought he never had plans to talk to me again. So it opened my mind, and also gave me closure. If he could talk to me even though it seemed like it was impossible, I could stop talking to this guy even if it was hard. We often get stuck in routine. But anyways, it really stung when the guy said he didnt feel our spark anymore either.. Thanks for reading

Relationships

So there is a boy i love.. and he didn't love me back..like we were in a relationship for 2-3 years..but he was just using me, and cheated me at last. I have tried to move on.. it's been 1 year.. I can't..he was my first love... I started loving him..and it's going to be 5 years now...i don't know what to do anymore..i thought i moved on cuz i was completely denying his thoughts..but today it's a different story. And i realised i can't trust myself with anybody else, I can't stay commited for them..the only boy i want to spend my whole life is my ex...ik if i get back to him now, i can easily patchup..but the things will again continue the way it was. He won't love me..nor give time to me...i hate this. Lmao. Dhhdhshsjsjkaksiususis. Fuck it, bye.

Love

I have an ex boyfriend. He is really good with me, and still wants to be with me but i kinda feel like i don't love him the way he does, that's the reason i break up with him in the first place. I doubted myself for that, and till I can't understand what to do. Since i started doubted that i don't love him and care the way he do, i called off our relationship, he thinks i was playing around yet all i wanted from stopping this relationship is to let him go and not keeping him and being selfish.
What do you guys think?

Anxiety

Just wanted to vent my heart out. It seems i have been carrying a lot of burden on me. I met a guy and fell in love with him. I thought he was interested in me too but he broke the bubble to me. He said it is just a one-time thing for fun with no emotional value to it. It left me deeply heartbroken as falling in love and heartbreak were the scariest thing for me that i never wanted to experience. And here i am entangled in the whirlpool of emotions and memories. I spent 6 mnths with him, it's just shocking to me that how can anyone be so heartless to not get attached with someone during this time. He wanted a friends with benefit bond with me which i considered disrespect to my emotions. But my love for him still wants to run back to him. I can't decide what to do? What to choose: self-love or my unconditional first love to him 😭

Maybe everything he said was right maybe it was the truth. I thought in my head that I was doing everything right that I was doing everything a girlfriend should do. I didn’t know that he saw me like any other female in the streets I didn’t know he felt unloved that much . The words he said to me hurt so bad as if I was get stab over and over again. My tears didn’t start to fall because of those words because to me there not true. My tears started to fall because those words came out of his mouth the one that I love. For that moment the way he talked to me the choice of his words made it seem like he actually didn’t care. That I was nothing to him . That’s all we want through was nothing and didn’t mean shit. Do we even know why we still together do we actually love each other or are we just sacred or being alone. For me I know my answer I love him and I want to be with him . But do he really want to be a with me I mean he says he do but does he really 
mean it . I know there was love there at once more then we both can handle . But now I feel that most of that love is gone . As if we would never be able to go back to how we once were. All that’s left is fights after fights no love . I just want to be happy that’s all I ever wanted 

Boyfriend

I feel like leaving and never coming back. My ex came about after 3 months saying he misses me and loves me and that I’m the best thing that’s ever happened to him. But yet he’s still talking to another girl. I’m so inlove with him that i gave him a second chance but nothing changed. As much as i know i should let him go. It’s hard for me bc i love him so much.

I feel like texting him again
Anyway he doesn't reply sometimes he does that makes me happy but when he don't it makes my day worst i can't call him because he blocked me from everywhere so I started texting him for which he replies or sometimes call 
I don't know what to do
These things are affecting my sleep my health and making me emotionally down 


It's half past midnight and I'm at work (nightshift). I just had a little heavy moment. I'm going through the phases of healing from a break up I guess. it's been almost 3 months since my ex blindsided me and ended our 2 Yr relationship. So yea my mind is in constant over drive and I don't know how to be in the present. I'm constantly thinking why?what if?I wonder if he feels the way I do?is he with someone else?etc etc..and I even wonder was I the problem? All not good I know but how to make my mind stop?! 


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