Hi , I am Swetha, my brother is of 23 year old and he behaves so immatured not upto his age.He doesn't have proper friends, and how to behave in a group of people. At rimes he gets so anxious and hyper by making weird gestures and common sense is lacking in him. My father left his responsibilities whenwe are so young. He has similar mannerisms and genes of my father is what my mom says. Could yoy please help how he can vome out of this and behave like a professional 


I am 24 and I still feel like I am 16 idk why. Maybe he is just adjusting to the fact of becoming an adult. Its really difficult for me to accept that I am adult and sometimes I do weird things too. But then I remind myself that bithch now you're 24 get a hold of yourself.

Anger Issues

Guys my brother earns very good and I don't earn anything today in a fight with him he taunted me about "Aukat " and pointed that I m worthless coz of my unemployment 
I am happy got to know real side of him aj tak sirf suna tha ab experience bhi karlia  
Apne bhi apne ni hote 
Paisa hai toh izzat hai 

Frustration

So my brother Always bullies me for everything. He Makes fun of me Always and Makes Me feel like i am the dumb one In the Whole house  he is 5 years elders to me and always thinks Like he is Smart and always in every topic he laughs at me makes jokes on me and this Is happening since years. I Feel fruatrated and angry due to this

To my little brother had an exam from 10 in the morning.. I gave him his breakfast and asked him to eat.. I asked him to eat 3 to 4 times repeatedly.. To which he got irritated and angry.. And yelled at me and cursed me for 5min continuous... To which my mom kept shut and did not say a word.. The reason I was forcing him to eat was if he does not eat on time, he later gets acidity and feels sick... I have always been the one doing everything for him and he has always cursed me for it. I feel like shit. And feel like this family doesn't need me anymore

Being second in 2 siblings in so annoying 😓😓

Insecurity

So few days back i asked for 1k from my brother as i needed it. Now i have always noted this whenever i have asked for some help or asked for something from him afterwards he always orders me to do things. Like he tells me to do other things and order me go and do it . Do this Go out and do this. Even if i am tired and even if i dont want to do it just coz he lended me some help doesnt me i have to listen to him always

Life

Hey! 
Today I'm going to share something with you. 
So, when I was little my family didn't liked me at all but they liked my brother. Why? Coz, he's a boy, he cares about everyone, he listens to everyone. Whenever he does something wrong he always puts his fault on me and I was the one who was scolded. This happened for many years, every month, every week. So, no one loves me. Whenever my brother cries everyone is there for him but when I know one is there for me. Whenever I have a fight with my brother and he hits me then no one see's him but when I hit him everyone scolds me. And my grandmother and grandfather they always scold me but not brother. Everytime I see people with their family I feel so jealous it's just I don't have a nice family who loves me. 
You know, my father is a doctor and I know he's busy but he's not busy at home, he always ignores me and is always on his stupid phone. You know father's love their daughter the most but my father he's opposite. And all he cares about is his phone and biology and marks and first place. 
And my mom she also doesn't care about me, she thinks that I'm the one whose being bad but actually she's one whose being bad. I can't share anything with her coz all she do is to tell people that her daughter is the worst. No mother does this. 
My family doesn't allow me to have a pet, to makeup, to open hair when I'm going outside, to talk to boys, to wear nice dresses. They doesn't allow me to do anything. I've always wanted to do all these but I can't coz I want them to know that I'm a good girl, I don't cry in front of them coz I want them to know that I'm a strong girl. They have already planned everything, what I have to do or what I don't. I can't even become something what I want like an engineer,or a scientist or an idol, singer, they want me to become a doctor. I wish I wasn't in this world, I wish I die. Even God is not helping me so I have decided to give up on God. 
And about my friends, I don't have any friends, coz they are jealous of me because their boyfriends like me, because their best friends like me, teachers like me, I'm beautiful, I'm good at singing, dancing, painting. They really hate me and talk at my back. 
Sometimes I think I've been cursed to whatever I'll want, I'll never get that and it really is true. I wanted friends but I don't have any, I wanted my family to be together but it is not because of my father coz he loves another women but not my mom and I can't even tell this to my mom because I'm scared that she'll hurt herself coz when I was little by mistake she knew it and she was going to kill herself but because of us she didn't die. That women keeps destroying my family and I can't do anything I don't know why my father likes that women I've saw her talking with my dad and I don't know what to do. 
I've always wanted three things in my life and those are FAMILY, FRIENDS and LOVE. I truly want these three. I wish someone was there who can help me. 
Please

Depression

Somedays it's hard being a elder sibling.
I fukin don't want to be responsible for other people stupidity....... Tired....

Adulting

I want to share something serious which somewhere hits me alot that is younger siblings are just dumb and immature and the older one are the responsible and loving and intelligent one?

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