Hi , I am Swetha, my brother is of 23 year old and he behaves so immatured not upto his age.He doesn't have proper friends, and how to behave in a group of people. At rimes he gets so anxious and hyper by making weird gestures and common sense is lacking in him. My father left his responsibilities whenwe are so young. He has similar mannerisms and genes of my father is what my mom says. Could yoy please help how he can vome out of this and behave like a professional 


I am 24 and I still feel like I am 16 idk why. Maybe he is just adjusting to the fact of becoming an adult. Its really difficult for me to accept that I am adult and sometimes I do weird things too. But then I remind myself that bithch now you're 24 get a hold of yourself.

Anger Issues

Hi guys! How to deal with brothers ???? They are so irritating annoyinggggg me all day

So few days back i asked for 1k from my brother as i needed it. Now i have always noted this whenever i have asked for some help or asked for something from him afterwards he always orders me to do things. Like he tells me to do other things and order me go and do it . Do this Go out and do this. Even if i am tired and even if i dont want to do it just coz he lended me some help doesnt me i have to listen to him always

Life

my oldest sibling just called me dumb for making a mistake bcs of autocorrect she said am in asshole.

Family

Today my parents were fighting because of my brother, they were fighting about his hair, my father is really homophobic and he thinks my brother might be gay cuz of his hair, my father said he would divorce my mother if he didn't cut his hair, but my brother being the selfish stubborn asshole he is, he refuses to cut his hair. he doesn't even care about the fact that they might divorce.
 

Divorce

I never thought today i’d start off my day almost breaking my neck jumping off a window after only getting 3h of sleep. 
My brother who has multiple disorders that cause him to act very aggressive and mean i guess, today he was feeling sick so he didn’t go to school, he woke me up saying something i couldn’t understand (bc he has a sore throat and can’t speak much) all i did was ask him to repeat it, i wasn’t even being rude but he decided to spray my room with a bunch of mosquito spray which is obviously toxic and stayed at the door so i wouldn’t be able to open it, he said he hopes i get intoxicated and d*e followed by other very mean words. I had no choice but to jump off the window and now i’m seating outside in the front yard waiting for my parents to come from work. I never thought this would be the reason why i’d ever do anything like this. He’s speaks to me and treats me with so much hatred, i try to justify it with his disorders but sometimes i just think he’s evil. Technically a psychopath also has a personality disorder should we tolerate them bc of that? I’m scared of my own brother, he’s hurt me physically multiple times and done way worst things than this, we even had to call the cops on him once bc we were afraid he’d k*** us. He’s 15!! and our family. Why does he have to be this way. I’m tired of standing this but i feel like i should .

What should I do when my cousin brother constantly insult me in from front of everyone…
I can differentiate between jokes and insult and my family also laughs when he insult me
He doesn’t see where he is insulting me I’m brother is getting married and he started to do it in front of my brother’s in-laws too.
I really hate him
Please give me some advice

I am Just annoyed a lot Coz of my brother. He Is elder to me and everyday He goes on and on. Why u r home today why not doing this that. I will tell Mom u dont do this that. I tryed to ignore it But he goes on and On. For hours and hours he just Goes on speaking and Its frustrating now. I dont Know what should i do. I tryed to ignore But everyday For hours he just goes on and on. Questions And Why u dont do this i will complain this that. I am just done now its really frustrating Now.

Frustration

https://nowandme.com/i-was-not-surprised-to-see-what-happened-ynYDbDd_IQVh3v-
Same person here.
So the thing is My brother is 11 and I have to say that my parents really don't know what's actually parenting , I know becs I'm  the older child I have too experienced it in my childhood like my dad used to drink and beat and abuse my mother... As I grew older I'm 19 rn so he stopped all those becs he's also getting old . But the thing is From childhood till now I have seen his most of time getting angry in small little things, His habit has always been to throw things in anger, especially when he's drunk. I still can't forget the night before my annual exam.... I know my brother is small but he doesn't understand the point, I am afraid that someday dad will do something to him or he will do something to dad because of their anger issues ... Ik dad won't change his behaviour .. but i want change my brother's behaviour.. becs if he didn't listen to me this time surely something is going to happen.... Thankfully mumma was here so she stopped my dad . Otherwise a lot was going to happen today.  I really don't want to see my brother suffer have to guide him. Becs my dad is never gonna change. 

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