Hi …I am getting married next year (arrange marriage) ,but I am not excited at all …and this guy he is so expressive and caring - but I don’t like it .I feel cring and uneasy. He is a nice person . I don’t know what’s wrong with me .
Take your time to understand both you. You still got enough time to make decision. Don’t worry.
Bhavna P. @bhavna_pande
Hi there,
It’s completely okay to feel a mix of emotions about an upcoming arranged marriage. Marriage is a life-altering change, so give yourself more time with him to tune together and match each other’s rhythm. Everyone has a unique way of expression, and it’s possible that you’re more reserved, not accustomed to an expressive nature.
Take time to explore both of yourselves and nurture the connection. It’s alright to feel uneasy initially. If you ever need guidance or relationship counseling, I’m here as your friendly counseling psychologist.
Take care,
Counseling Psychologist Bhavna Pande
Mitr @sabka_mitr
Agar aapko acha na lag raha ho toh usey abhi hi mana kardo kyuki agar aap aagey jaake mana karoge ya shadi k baad aap adjust ni kar paoge toh 2 families suffer karenge and shadi mai kharch huye paise bhi bach jayenge
Try to explain the situation to the family. Just remember that you have the time. Because once shadi is done. It cannot be undone
