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Anonymous

Hi guys,
I met this guy on Bumble in May and we have been dating now since 3 months officially but there is one issue- he feels discomfortable about my past(like my ex’s) which I think is pretty normal. He doesnt blame me but just gets uncomfy
But when he keeps stressing over it that what if I dont stop thinking this way etc
He is a v practical and calculative person, so according to him he should know what to do to sort this and in a timelimit

Apart from this our relationship is pretty good

Bcz of this reason, he feels unsure about me in the sense if this feeling will ever go away or not. What should I do?

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Ayushi Tuteja @ayushitutej...

He is uncomfortable regarding my past and is not sure if he will be able to accept it or not.
He says he wants to work on our relationship and wants to move ahead but sometimes this thought triggers and restricts him

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Anonymous

If he is mature enough then he should accept your past no matter what every realationship should be new beginning and not something to bring something about past
Look all i am trying to say is that you guys have met on a dating app even he must have ex if he only have issues with your ex than maybe it’s his problem not your and better try to fix this by talking about it once and deciding not to talk about both of your past again ❣️💕

Ayushi Tuteja @ayushitutej...

Yes, I agree with you and even he thinks the same.
I think he is just taking a bit more time than others but when he says he is unsure then it feels bad

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Rahul kainth @rkainth15

I really can’t say a lot here because I don’t know the whole thing but if he is really not letting go off your past then maybe he is not the right person for you because one thing is for sure that you can’t change it right 💕

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Siddharth @foxtrot_1

Hi! You trust & affection towards him will make it go away! Work on that.

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