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Hi, mine was an arrange marriage, it’s been 7.5 years of marriage and have one 2.5 years old baby girl. Before baby there was love i would say 50% but after baby there is no romance, my husband never kiss or even touch, all he want is only sex and that too when he want, I feel in my marriage there is no love, I love him always I wait that he will come near me will hug and kiss me but it never happens, only fights are there and complaints, I want love I told him but he don’t understand, I mean I want him to touch me and love me like what couples do but it is zero what should I do, i told him also that I feel so but after saying he shows affection for 1 or 2 days after that all routine is this normal in marriage?living like this, I feel like why I am living with a man who doesn’t love me😔

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Prashant J. @prashant_jitu...

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Dear One,
I can understand how it feels when you’re overlooked and not loved and here you’ve very specifically pointed out towards your relationship and the behavior of your husband towards you. If I may ask, how is your primary relationship in life and that relationship is your relationship with yourself. Are you in a state of acceptance and loving yourself for who you are and the way you are. For a moment stand in front of the mirror and look into your eyes. See how you feel. The reason I’m saying this is, when we love and approve of ourselves for the way we, we begin loving ourselves and with self-love everything in your life shifts. You deserve to be loved because you exist. For sometime be very comfortable in your own skin and give yourself unconditional love and acceptance and when you fill yourself with it, that’s what you exude and what you give out comes back, often multiplied.
If there is one person you can change - that’s you. No matter how much you push your spouse to give you the love that you’ve been seeking, you’ll only show that you’re being greedy for his love and you don’t have to.
Change yourself in a way that he chooses to accept and love you for being YOU!

Hope this helps ❣️

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I am so sorry to hear that mate, as a married woman I can understand your feelings, I sincerely hope everything goes well for you:)

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Are you going through the same pain?

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Rashmi S. @rashmi_shah

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Heyyyy
I really can only imagine how much you want him to be your side and all you are asking is hugs and being close to feel love. I canteen imagine how difficult it must be foryou to still keep upto life and live together by masking your real feelings.

I would definitely encourage you to speak to experts to feel lighter and navigate through this as soon as possible as I don’t want you to be in Mental pain for long.

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Nikitha Kapu @magic_nail_3

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I feel giving up

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Why?

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Rashmi S. @rashmi_shah

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Hey Nikita

I can’t even imagine what you must be going through that is making you say and feel this. I’m sure something is not easy for you. Would you consider connecting on a non judgmental space with experts?

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Prashant J. @prashant_jitu...

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Giving up won’t change anything for you my dear one.
Work on yourself and until you get to the root of the beliefs in you which attracted this person in your life - you’ll only recreate the same situations again and again until you work on yourself in becoming aware of what caused it, what belief could you change and also letting go.
Know that if you don’t do it for yourself, no one else will. There never is a right or a wrong time to start the work. The only time is NOW!
CHOOSE WISELY

iSmokeSadness @em666

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How to use this ai feature?

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Bani Singh @banisinghvasir

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Hi there! You can click on the Nemo button on the home page of the app to start a chat :)

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@calm_wire_3
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My thoughts related to currently am confused with my partner as to choose him as my husband.

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@magical_wall_3
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I am feeling extremely complicated right now😓

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