Hi everyone. M jha kaam krti hu bha meri 1 ladke ke sath vibe match nhi hoti mujhe vo psnd nhi hai means toxic hai. So how I handle this situation jab v bhs hoti hai vo rude bolta hai or uski bate fir mere dimg m chlti rhti hai. M kaam m Or aware ho jati hu ki khi vo mujhe kuch bol na de. So m kya karu. Jese dba dba mhsoos karti hu? Any one pls help me.
Ignoreeeeeeeeee simple
khalid @khalid1221
Don’t supress it, if you feel he’s harrassing you then pls inform yr higher authority, it clearly messing with you mentally and professionally eventually messing with ur life, i will suggest if you don’t like him and don’t want to engage with him, then you should make ur distance and also make him realise by avoiding any argument plus clear words me mna kro, after that ignore him and focus on yr work and wellbeing…👍
I can feel you Kuki mere sath bhi ye problem hai ki me toxic environment me daba daba mehsoos krti hun or fr vo mere mind ko trigger krne lg jati h Chije … I hope sab thik hojaye … take care … smile please
Same. Mujhe esa hota hai ki mne iska itna kya bura kr diya. Or fir yh over thinking ruined my all happiness. Or ap mn skte ho glti uski hogi or fir v mujhe esa hota rahega chl koina m chuk kr us se baat kr leti hu. Or yh chij mujhe bhut preshn kr deti hai. Ki m ese kyu hu glti uski hurt usne kiya fir v mujhe bechani se kyu hone lgti hai.
khalid @khalid1221
If you don’t mind me asking…do You like him ?
Even if it’s yes i don’t think it will be good thing for you, as what you have mentioned earlier, i can sense you can’t stop and get normal to talk to that person, also it clearly messing with ur mental health… Just avoid him and clearly state him to not talk to you…why are you torturing yourself, it will only lead to bad mental health or anxiety type situations… If you sadistic pleasure my torturing urself then it’s a different thing…
Meri koi liking nhi hai uske sath.
khalid @khalid1221
Then what’s the problem then you should leave him immediately try to make and create distance from him it is the only way to make everything right, from now on try not to engage in any kind of argumentary with him just ignore and focus on your work make new friends and leave him, if problem persist after that, go and inform yr higher authority, they will help you… they should
(Sorry for replying early actually just got the notification )
Ok thanks. I’ll try nd than see
