Hi everyone. M jha kaam krti hu bha meri 1 ladke ke sath vibe match nhi hoti mujhe vo psnd nhi hai means toxic hai. So how I handle this situation jab v bhs hoti hai vo rude bolta hai or uski bate fir mere dimg m chlti rhti hai. M kaam m Or aware ho jati hu ki khi vo mujhe kuch bol na de. So m kya karu. Jese dba dba mhsoos karti hu? Any one pls help me.
Ignoreeeeeeeeee simple
khalid @khalid1221
Donβt supress it, if you feel heβs harrassing you then pls inform yr higher authority, it clearly messing with you mentally and professionally eventually messing with ur life, i will suggest if you donβt like him and donβt want to engage with him, then you should make ur distance and also make him realise by avoiding any argument plus clear words me mna kro, after that ignore him and focus on yr work and wellbeingβ¦π
I can feel you Kuki mere sath bhi ye problem hai ki me toxic environment me daba daba mehsoos krti hun or fr vo mere mind ko trigger krne lg jati h Chije β¦ I hope sab thik hojaye β¦ take care β¦ smile please
Same. Mujhe esa hota hai ki mne iska itna kya bura kr diya. Or fir yh over thinking ruined my all happiness. Or ap mn skte ho glti uski hogi or fir v mujhe esa hota rahega chl koina m chuk kr us se baat kr leti hu. Or yh chij mujhe bhut preshn kr deti hai. Ki m ese kyu hu glti uski hurt usne kiya fir v mujhe bechani se kyu hone lgti hai.
khalid @khalid1221
If you donβt mind me askingβ¦do You like him ?
Even if itβs yes i donβt think it will be good thing for you, as what you have mentioned earlier, i can sense you canβt stop and get normal to talk to that person, also it clearly messing with ur mental healthβ¦ Just avoid him and clearly state him to not talk to youβ¦why are you torturing yourself, it will only lead to bad mental health or anxiety type situationsβ¦ If you sadistic pleasure my torturing urself then itβs a different thingβ¦
Meri koi liking nhi hai uske sath.
khalid @khalid1221
Then whatβs the problem then you should leave him immediately try to make and create distance from him it is the only way to make everything right, from now on try not to engage in any kind of argumentary with him just ignore and focus on your work make new friends and leave him, if problem persist after that, go and inform yr higher authority, they will help youβ¦ they should
(Sorry for replying early actually just got the notification )
Ok thanks. Iβll try nd than see