Hi everyone! I’ve been in a casual relationship with someone since August 2021 (friends with benefits) and I think I just fucked it up yesterday because I was sensing that lately he was making excuses to not see each other, like he was too busy with work or he has plans with friends, etc. And I am also aware that he has been seeing other girl but I kept feeling that he preferred being with the other girl than myself and I know I don’t have the right to be angry. Now I’m feeling very lonely because I think all those time I’ve invested to him were all wasted 😔😔
its fine … its normal to feel lonely
it’ll be over in few days … dont let urself down just for anyone
agarwal @vedant12340987
I am open to casual relationships
Thats understandable, been there it gets better just dont rush into a relationship or anything to get away from the loneliness it usually ends up as a rebound situation.
Also weird tip but don’t watch anything you like watching because itll connect with the current feeling and when you watch it later itll bring up the current emotions instead watch stuff you’ve been keeping away and your favourite childhood shows that brought up good memories from before. Same for music your favourite music will get associated with the pain and youll feel like not wanting to listen to it later when youre over it all
Thanks a lot. I am trying to keep myself busy so I don’t have to think about him and I think it was a lot of help
Damn girl, you’ve been attached to him of course you’d be very lonely.
It’s okay though, time heals, these friends with benefit things really ruined generations mental health because of the unstable form of the relationship, people come and go the way they want and we forget about our worth because we let people take us for granted.
I don’t have the same experience that you have, but I’ve been attached with somebody emotionally and things just don’t go too well.
My advice; don’t go back to the fwb thing, that just not healthy. Instead, you can upgrade yourself with new hobby or learning something new, avoid places you’ve been hanging around with him, delete all the photos, meet new people for network and engage with positive environment. That’s how I learned to not be lonely at all. It always feels nice every time.
I hope this will help. And don’t forget to give yourself some time to feel uneasy. Keep yourself busy but always acknowledge how you feel. Have a good day!
