Hi everyone, i wanted to share something with someone as im not sure if thats a corrext kind of thunking or not, and i May be wrong in my judgement.
My family got me as the head of a business i didnt want as soon as i was 18, three years later its still not functioning but ive a ton of loans on my name. In the meantime i found a bf Whom i moved in with, helped me out of my depression and explained to me that my parents are toxic People Who keep blaming me for the failure of their business because i was in a different town studying and working smth else. My mom has always been all about herself, and money, and nothing i did was ever good enough. Till age 20 i had 0 confidenxe because of that, and when i was 18 she got so drunk one night she decided she wants to walk the streets and i went to bringherback. She got mad i didnt want to go with her and she swung a fist at me. I couldnt dodge in time, so i was spitting blood and two pieces of my braces fell off due to hit. Since then i didnt want to have to do anything with her and moved the hell out to live and study in a different town. To this Day she calls me a piece of worthless trash that wont amound to anything ever. They are now stuck for money, once again, and i wanted to help out so i went home for a bit, even my boyfriend comvinced me i had to lend them a hand. As soon as i steoped home they began separating us as according to them he was pulling me away from them, and bc apparantly i owe them to stay there for at least 3 to 6 more years and work, plus leaving my boyfriend.
Since i was afraid he contacted a home abuse agency for me, as a week ago i had my arm in a sling bc of my Mother. She hit me because i wanted to leave the kitchen and She didnt allow me. They said i have to get out of here asap, or they Will ruin me. But my parents say ill never have a family and that thatre gonna ruin my life if i leave them. Constant stress, anxiety through the roof that i got to chill pills, fear, its all driving me insane. What should i do, do you think i should stay after all, Just bc they are family?
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