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hi!
Can anyone please explain me the she/her and they/them pronoun concept?

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Anonymous

Pronouns are simply words used to let people know what you identify as. The most commonly used pronouns are He/Him, She/Her, and They/Them.

He/him/his-These pronouns can refer to people who identify as boys or men, but are not limited to male people. While he can be an affirming pronoun for some people, we can’t assume that all people who appear to be masculine or affirm a male identity use he/him/his pronouns.

She/her/hers -Similar to the he/him/his set, these pronouns can refer to people who identify as girls or women, but are not limited to female-identified people. Likewise, we can’t assume that all people we assume or know to be female use she/her/hers pronouns.

They/them/ their- these gender-neutral singular pronoun used by cisgender people.some people specifically use they/them/their pronouns instead of he or she to represent their identity outside of the gender binary.They is often used in reference to a singular person whose gender pronouns are unknown.

Anonymous

ok so like if i use they/ them i refer myself as gender neutral?
and if i want to use pronouns to tell i am a bisexual so what should i use
i am a girl.

Anonymous

It totally depends on you , what pronouns you are comfortable with, it’s not necessary if you’re bi then u have to use they/them and u can’t use she/her. You can ofcourse use they/them if you are expressing your gender neutrality :)

Even i want to know about this.