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hi all. I’ve dated 5 people in the past 3 months, and all have lasted less than a week. I’ve been bullied and made fun of for having so many boyfriends and stuff and it has left me both emotionally, and physically drained. I don’t feel like working out, I don’t feel like talking to people and I’m just embarassed. With the latest boyfriend, I chose to give a part of me to him that I haven’t given to any of my other boyfriends. After I did it, I immediatley felt ashamed, and I felt as though I should cover it up. He reminded me of what had happened and it made me feel ashamed and sad, so I broke up with him. Recently, all of my friends have found out about this, and they have chosen to practically bully me, and call me, “the school thot”, because I’ve “dated most of the guys” at our small school, when in reality, I’ve only dated a few guys at that school. It’s making me feel depressed and anxious, and I don’t know what to do about it.

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Anthony @anthony

1. Drop the dating…why are you dating so quickly and so many…youre not about to die soon are you?..dating requires maturity.dedication, and time…so date later on down the line when everyone no longer needs acne medication…males at that age are only trying to fuck anything with a hole in it…you cant force a relationship out of that.
2.  drop the fake ass friends…real friends dont judge nor bully…real friends give advice and are always gonna have your back…not be there in your face to freeload off you and call you bullshit names…and besides…they are probably burnt about how quickly you scoop up the trick ass lil boys that they more than likely wanted.
moral of this is dont date yet date later…actual men will be available mentally and physically…and drop the hoes from your friends list…real friends will find you.

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Bani Singh @banisinghvasir

Hey there,People need something to talk about. They like discussing other people’s lives due to the lack of variety in their own. But don’t feel pressurised due to that. I know you’re in school, and school is hard and people can be mean. And girls and women, all over the world, at all ages, have all been labelled a hoe, or similar names, at some point. It’s not right, and that’s not how things should be. And I know it must hurt, but I want you to know that you’re not alone. It’s what people do to try to put you down. Maybe they’re saying it in jest, maybe they don’t even realise the impact their words have. Whatever the reason might be, I urge you to not take them to heart. It’s the narrow mindsets of shallow people that fail to see beyond the petty gossip. You don’t need to react or retaliate. Just try and ignore it, and they’ll soon get bored and move on to the next piece of whatever it is that fancies their eye.
 
Don’t feel bad or guilty about what happened. Women aren’t expected to have sexual needs or desires. That privilege seems to be retained for the men in our society, amongst other privileges. Whatever happened, happened. It doesn’t speak anything about you or your character. Your character is in how you treat people, how you speak, things you’re passionate about, the perspective you bring into this world. All this is perhaps a lot to take in. But trust me, this is what will help you rise above. Don’t let them pull you down. Find your anchor. Find what makes you, you. Your personal, private life is not a topic of conversation and people should know better than that. And if they don’t, it makes them look stupid, not you. I’m here if you need more guidance or just someone to talk to. But don’t worry, you’ll be just fine. You can do this ❤️

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Kapil Agrawal @kapil15a

Hell true

Deepanshi @deepanshigupta0

Hey! Don’t worry and don’t be depressed about that. Its just you need to give yourself some time first. Don’t be in hurry to have boyfriends n all. Just give time to understand the person first then do what you want. And don’t be ashamed because he should be ashamed if he is splitting all things out. 
Stay blessed.

Khushboo @khushboo

Hi, please don’t be depressed or anxious. Handle the situation in a good manner. Don’t get affected by these people. Work hard and achieve success. More power to you.

@delta344

If you were dating someone for a week I wouldn’t call that dating or serious for that matter.

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