Hi all
I m jobless and recently my bf bursted on me as I m not working since pandemic and if I will not work his family won’t let us marry as they see no positive point in me…2-4 days back he bursted on me as his relatives and family is after him to get married…well my fault…I don’t blame him for everything…but our relationship suffered too and v r trying to make it beautiful and I m trying to get some job…I don’t understand why Indian families/ relatives take kids marriage so personally
This is how to make him believe in me and things well too
What’s the relation between ur job and marriage??? Why is ur job a positive for guys family…
He is very well qualified and family wants an educated girl plus he lost his father 2 years back so mother and sibling wants that…plus he wants me to stand independent with my own identity
This doesn’t sound right…ru ok with this requirement? Is this a love marriage?
Well I see good side or may be I m not able to see…idk what is right but he is supportive and ready to help me to step back in job…to every female he is like work ladies stand on your feet and he feels same for me
I agree with your guy, but it should not come as a requirement. And on top of that his family making it as a primary requirement to accept is kinda fishy. I hope ur clear about this marriage and his family.
Did he choose you just by thinking you’ll work and doesn’t he know unemployment has increased because of pandemic and you have to clear this well with him
V both t abroad and he loves his mother lil more thn me…tell me is this real that a guy can go make everything happy or take a stand …
Waise even before marriage and all when v were friends he wanted me to be self dependent
He can’t burst on you for this and he suggesting you to be self dependent is great.
But he can’t show that as a reason to blame you or to link it to marriage.
Make him understand you’re trying
Sounds good…yes I told him…tbh I m not trying enough but after he bursted out I started we oeking harder…
Make him believe that things will definitely get better with time and you work on it too. It’s almost your family now
