Heyy!! how to satisfy parents? how to satisfy yourself being a teenage girl? how to overcome insecurities about weight , marks n all- really in a phase like one moment I am happy and the next moment I feel SHIT… I got no friends at all, I was so good in studying but my grades are going down, my body pains alot without any reason, just cannot concentrate and really irritated the whole day, just pissed off yaar… someone really here to help like a good friend a good human being? :(
no-one @ank2324
You know parents will always be like that. Don’t think much about physical stuff have tried doing that no matter what you do they will find a way to comment on that.
Rather try to focus on things which makes you happy. If you do that trust me you will feel the difference.
For sometime try to stop giving damn about what ppl may think. And do what makes you happy. Start loving yourself more.
Weight n marks are temp things can be changed.
you’re right, thank you :)
no-one @ank2324
I been in that situation rather I am still
In that.
I was much fat ppl family everyone call
Me fat n other bad words. I did so much things. Good n bad unnatural dieting n all n reduced like anything then ppl start calling me I look so unhealthy like a drug addict n blah blah stuff.
Plus about parents. Start loving urself more make urself happy and you will do really good in ur life and they will automatically get happy. They are ur parents.
So my frn start loving urself like the way you want others to
I am actually not ’ fat’ its just that I have so many expectations from my own self my own body, my parents are also not very harsh on this, its just that they are complaining about everything I do , I just want a perfect figure but my body pains alot when I workout
no-one @ank2324
The idea of perfect is not exist. For every individual it’s different.
And if your body pains then pls get some test done. Like vitamin D25, iron, and B12.
You will mostly get your answer from
That only.
Be kind to them! Laugh more often with them. Do more of what u love… Like i like painting, Dancing. Utoo surely love atleast one or more than one thing? Right do it. Love your insecurities. Exercise not for the world but for u coz its healthy. Be consistent. Drink lot of water to keep hydrated. Take care of ur skin… Coz its a saying when u look good u feel good. Haha and uk when i feel i look like shit… I just say… Huh i m a baddie ,and moves on passing in front of mirror hahaha
aww, you have a really nice attitude <3 , I do try doing all this but uk not able to follow any consistent routine
Aah bestie thanks for the compliment haha also On the same boat… Just make a journal and start with easy tasks coz uk if we fail those task we get demotivated ,so when we start with easy tasks we feel good and get more confident for the other day
pie 🥧 @sweetpie21
You don’t need to satisfy anyone neither parents nor anyone else… People will always expect something from you but as long you are a kind person with good heart it’s definitely ok… The only person you should be working on is you ♥ talking abt insecurities I have them too everybody has but you shouldn’t let it act as a blockage in ur life… Take small steps you don’t need to change everything overnight just focus on consistency and take small steps… Like use positive words for yourself and as you said you have body pain do yoga it’s not tiring it will relax your mind and body… I do it too… Go for a walk 👣 … Nature is best… You don’t need to rush… Your peace should be ur priority now ♥ and talking abt feeling good one day and shitty the next… I have been through this phase and I feel you ok… To get over this you need to heal yourself mentally… You can do a lot of things like watch videos on healing or past trauma and listen to soothing music it will calm you down… If u Overthink write it down it works ♥ good luck
damn, thank you so so so much… You really took alot of your time to do this favor for me, I’m really grateful… and I am trying everything which is possible its just that I really become hopeless, I have no friends so I am a lonely person too, my parents are just getting toxic so they dont acknowledge me much uk :( + my exams are going on so there is a hell lotta burden and bestiee much love to you! you gave me alot of strength and you gave me advice on every single problem I wrote, I really appreciate that from the bottom of my heart… I will just start everything slowly and slowly and the main problem is I am the one who expects the most from me , which makes me disappointed later as I am not able to do every single thing, lacking self love but its gonna be okay ig :)… I hope you’re doing good too… Imma work on every tip you gave meee, Thankk youuu <3
pie 🥧 @sweetpie21
Go for progress but perfection… Don’t worry abt failing bcoz if u worry you will not take any step… So progress is imp not perfection… ( no ones perfect ♥)
you’re right :)
