been having a fucked up few months with my 10yr relationship ending, the mother of my child going after full custody to get more money out of me and out of pettiness cause I hooked up with one of her friends. Also I‘m about to destroy a marriage cause I‘m the affair of a married woman and my alcohol, Valium and heroin abuse is spiraling out of control. Lockdown doesn’t really contribute to the shit that’s going on and I really don’t know what tf I’m supposed to do about all of that. I think I like the women (ex gf‘s friend) but I also can’t let the married woman down cause she basically gave up everything for me. I have no control over what’s happening atm and feel like everyone’s been taking advantage of me. Ex gf‘s friend using me as a booty call, married woman unloading her shit on me dragging me into her nasty divorce stuff, drugs constantly pulling me in. Life could be great. I’m employed at a company I’m going to take over in the next couple years I shouldn’t be feeling like shit all day but I‘d be fucking happy to just be okay. You know what I mean like I would be happy to just be right in the middle. Don’t expect to feel good or anything I’d totally be cool with just feeling OK…
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