hey uh this is my first time using this site so uh here are somethings about me 
I'm lesbian, i like the Beatles and queen, my favorite tv show is friends, and i came here to make some friends or something idk lol 

Hey @kadyn, nice to meet you! I’m bi, and like Ed Sheeran and The Good Place. I go here all the time to vent, talk to people, and ask for advice. Everyone on here is really nice, supportive, and accepting and this is a safe place for you to talk about anything you want without being judged. I’m looking forward to talking to you sometime!

Hey, thanks for sharing and welcome. I love friends and Beatles too. 🌻
And  yes, you're most welcome to talk and be friends.

Lonely

Can I make some gay or bi friends here? I wanna make connections <3 oh and I'm 15, bisexual and from India! <3

LGBTQ

Hey I am 19 yr old bisexual. My pronouns are she/her. HMU

*TW: slighty homophobic* 
So my mom is religious(christian) and shes the type to "support me" in anything...So I firstly told my dad that I was Bisexual and Gender-fluid. My dads the chill type of guy who will actually not really judge me(but he can be a little uncomfortable sometimes). The only fault is, my dad is loyal and doesn't keep secrets from my mom(his wife). So he told her and told her not to tell me that he told her...so about a week later...she came to me and asked me why I wanted to hide my sexuality from her. She said, "I'll support you no matter what...even if what you're doing isn't the right thing...(insert name)" That's when it hit me that she doesn't actually feel that way. She has tried to change my sexuality and asked me really uncomfortable questions that I didn't want to answer on the note that I'd be judged. I hadn't told her about my girlfriend...and she still doesn't know...she now watches me 24/7 and puts locks on my phone and cameras around the house to watch me... Hopefully she doesn't see this. Anyways, since I was figuring out who I was and I felt I wasn't straight I started making it somewhat public. My mom found out and told me, "(insert name), you need to stop confessing your sins. You keep them to yourself and work on them quietly...I don't go around saying my sins and being proud of them. You shouldn't be proud of something that you did wrong. And you shouldn't be announcing it to everyone either.." That's the phrase that broke my heart....I'm not gonna type anymore for fear of crying....well it's not like I can cry anymore...I have more trauma not including this but I'll probably share those another day...Well, thank-you for reading! If you can, give me your opinions and advice about how I should deal with this...and sorry this might not be very important in your eyes...

Being gay isn't easy. The community is so niche and the people in it too. Being the closeted one makes it more tough. Idk i probably desperate or something. But i feel lonely a lot these days and don't know hiw to cope up with feeling. 

im bi and i dont know how to tell it to my parents because i think they're homophobic what if they're going to hate me

Coming Out

I am Gay and I came out with my sister last week. I am going through lot of emotional black mail. Can’t able to work,sleep..I am going through tough phases in my life 😞

I don't know what to say, I'm surrounded by the same expectations everyday. To be the golden child, the best. Finish school and become some good. I wasn't even wanted to be a girl, my family hates me, but still expects the best from me. Every argument where I mention that I ruin everything, they always agree. I get very clingy and emotional, which drives people away from me. I hate it, everyday. I do one little thing wrong and everyone goes off on me. Why can't I just escape. I'm taking classes to be an EMR but I also still have a year left in school till I can further the training. I told my parents I want to be in the medical field long ago, so of course they would only expect the best from me. I caused my own demise.😐

Let's not mention that I've told everyone, besides my dad and his family, that I'm pan. Like they know, they just don't mention it. But when I get a boyfriend they asked if I was still gay. So to make them happy I said, "Right now? Yes." I didn't realize how toxic my family was when it came to the subject of MY sexuality.

Recently, I got a friend request from a stranger on discord. Being someone whom is open for dms, I accepted it. It started of normally, she told me about herself. She's a closeted demigirl who's questioning their sexuality. I said I accepted that, and I myself was part of the LGBTQ+ community too. She said their parents were homophobic. Extremely and openly homophobic. I asked if she felt unsafe at home, because she told me she was 10.  She said she felt unsafe, so, I asked why she felt particularly unsafe.

She told me 'down there' hurt. I asked why, because Im genuinely worried. They said their father did it. I asked what he did. She said he stuck his private part up there, and there was a lot of glue looking stuff. I asked if she had her period yet, so I could see whether or not there was a possibility of her being y'know, pregnant. She said that they hadnt had their period in FOUR MONTHS. and that her father had been doing this for a long time. I asked if she had told their mom, she said she had. I asked why their mom didn't do anything. They said their mom thought she was lying. I asked why she didn't show her mom what their father had done. She said her mom didn't care. They told me they wanted to run away because nobody cares about her. In reply, I said I cared for them. It broke my heart. 

I told her she should call the police, it took some encouraging, but she did eventually. Their dad came into her room. Told the police it was a prank call. The police didn't do anything. Then, she told me their father hit them and hurt 'down there' again. I asked her to call the Sexual Abuse hotline. Again, it took some encouraging, but they eventually called. The personnel came to her house, and asked about it. Parents lied. 

She replied back to me, saying her father did it again and was very angry. I told her she should try and sleep. 

Little did I know, she was showing signs of pregnancy. She told me about it the next morning, saying her parents called her pig again because her tummy was big, even though they were on a diet. 

Her parents took her to the hospital today. I'm hoping she's not pregnant. They're only 10, and the abortion laws here in the U.S. I'm waiting for her to tell me the results, and what happened.

This is a lot for me to keep to myself. I didn't explain in detail very well either. All of this happened yesterday and today. I'm hoping she's ok. It's a lot for someone to handle, and it's extremely sickening. I'm trying to do research on how to help. If you have suggestions, please let me know.

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