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Anonymous

Hey. So to be specific, I recently found out that my ex has a girlfriend. I feel cheated. As far as I know I have no rights to say anything now but I feel cheated cause before getting into the relationship … for 2 months he was trying to convince me to get back. I didn’t go back because I didn’t trust him. Let’s just say he did something that I cannot forget or forgive. So I was scared to go back but I always had a soft corner for him as we dated for 5 years. I never thought he would make a new gf soon after he was convincing me. I don’t understand this and Idk what to do. I didn’t think about going back but I didn’t expect him moving on this fast as well. My stomach literally aches while thinking about it and I just feel hollow. Numb and dead inside. I thought maybe in future we will talk but for that I needed him to be single and now he’s just committed with someone else that idk if I’ll be talk to him ever again. This phase just hurts so much and I’ve not been able to get over it. I feel like I want him back now. Idk.

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Lattika @borahae

You can’t talk to him like a lover but you can always be friends i know it hurts a lot to see someone you love being with someone else but everything goes with time , you shud forget it and try to move on

@jazzuuu

Ohhhh nooooo😭
Girl dont worryyyyy
I know it hurts alot
But dont think about him
Delete his chats and everything
And try to get distracted and focus on ur happiness 😭❤
so much love and strength ❤❤❤

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Anonymous

Thanks love. I’m trying. And I deleted everything blocked him everywhere but I’ve not been able to forget the memories which still hurt ugh

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Anonymous

🥺🥺🥺🥺it takes timee,
dont worry were always here for u🥰😇

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Anonymous

If he did something which you can’t forgive , so forget him, life is like this you have to move on, here the problem is he is dating someone else and how can he be over you it’s okay , I dated this guy for 7 years , we went off for 1 year and he made a best friend then we came back again , and I thought she is just a friend and we dated for next 2 years then he cut me off by saying he needed space and then I got to know that after few days he started dating her and I ended up being in that breakup zone but I know we have to move on ,I usually see that girl , she works with me , but again , I can’t do anything and have to move on , you should also try forgetting him ! It’s possible , no need to feel I secure about it okay , love you ! ✨💝

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Anonymous

Thank you, I’m trying but this process is just ugh so damn difficult

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Anonymous

It will take time, you have to focus on things which you love , it took me some 3 years to move on life is like this , don’t think about that you were lacking something in that relationship , the problem was never with you , don’t rush into any relation with that pressure just try to work on yourself be a better version of yourself Ik You’ll end up with a really nice person ! ✨

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Anonymous

Thank you and I believe so. Hopefully one day. Thanks for hearing me out :')

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Anonymous

Welcome ! Anyday !

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