Hey, so something happened back in the november last year and because of that i maintained my distance from someone special. Hum phle bhi ladte the but this time bht repeated chize thi and when i realised that, i left. Usne bht reach out kiya mujhe to talk about that, jiske bare m hum phle bhi bht baar discuss kr chuke and still vo hoti rhi. So he reached out alot and he was also sorry alot but i didnt respond because i was hurt. He continously tried for 3 months now and now when i look at those messages i feel like i was so horrible, that maine usko koi respond nhi diya, usko suna tak nhi ek baar. But phr rk trf lagta h ki main hurt thi or scared bhi ki agar ek baar bhi baat krli toh main uski batein maan lungi or phr mere sath vaisa hi behaviour hoga jiske liye vo aaj sorry bol rha h but on the other hand i feel horrible ki maine aise treat kiya, kitni pathardil hu.
I know its very confusing because i am confused in my mind. I feel like i took the right decision for me, i know selfish h but now i feel like that disheartned person
I think just reach out to him. Maybe talk to him and let him know even he deserves to know what was going on and why it happened. It’s okay if you don’t want to continue it but just get a closure both of you. And part ways
I did tell him that its over and i am scared that it would happen again, he knows everything and was still continously reaching out
Maybe he wanted to fix it idk but if he was trying till the end he deserves to know what happened and why you had to take that hard decision. I can’t say anything about the future tbh no one can but I guess you should reach out once. If it’s meant to be fixed it will if it’s not at least both of you did try.
Hey,
It’s okay if you behaved that way… if it was effecting your mental health and i am sure he clearly knew that it is bothering you but the fact that “his behaviour was hurtful” he was not bothered about it… that’s why he kept doing it.
And you tell yourself that it was your fault too… but trust me it would must have been your reactions only…
Ask yourself only one question… was he toxic?? And if the answer is yes then you did the right thing… don’t think about it…
Just don’t overthink and move on…
all the very best🤗
Thanku
There is good and bad in everyone and i am just two minded rn
Talk with him…clear things with him…that how u feel and everything…
Already done and he is sorry about it but i know that he will repeat his behaviour
