Hey so I am bisexual, and I recently came out to my little brother cause I figured he would be supportive, but apparently he is a raging homophobe. He seems to think that being gay Or a lesbian is wrong and same sex marriage is wrong and a sin. I tried to explain to him that was not the case but he simply said it was wrong and if I didnβt change he would simply stop talking to me. When I asked what he would do if his best friend or brother said he was gay he said that he would beat him till he understands itβs wrong or stop talking with them. He is only 13 years old and my parents are not homophobic but at the same time they donβt openly talk about sex, gender and such. I would like to know how to explain to hindi that being a homosexual is not wrong.
Hey hi there
Strength to you π€
Bisexual girl here π
Let him figure out on his own give him sometime and be casual about it because by being serious about tha topic youβll make it more intense, be friendly and talk about Bisexuality at your home like its normal. I hope they will be more accepting towards that.
And you are courageous for comibg out to your brother proud of you
Thanks but what if he never comes around?
Sure if we connect to that level
Nothing much actually
Yeah I hope so
Sure. And thanks π
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swati bhatt @swatibhatt
He will For sure why because he is your brother and he loves you. Just give it sometime .and put yourself in his position not as a person from lgbt community but as opposite and then try to make efforts in that direction, Jo issue aap face krte accept krne me wo use bhi ho rhe honge and he is just 13 world is full of many opinions and mindsets to put you in something according to them
Yeah thatβs true thank you so much Iβll be patient with him
ππ and with yourself too
Heyy so i have a younger brother too and even though he does watch some of the bl movies and dramas but i doubt that he will understand if i tell him Iβm gay.
Well just remember that we as LGBTQ community have to go through these kinda things and conflicts with our parents but just know that ITβS NOT WRONG. No matter what he says . Itβs because of the narrow minded people around him . Let it be. Be strong
Thanks I hope he will change soon but for now I will let it be