Hey internet,
This is the first time Iβve ever posted anonymously but Iβm in a bit of a pickle! My girlfriend asked me to marry her last night which is amazing! The problem is that Iβm not out to my homophobic dad yet. Iβve been procrastinating quite a bit. I know I have to come out to him now since Iβm getting married but Itβs always hard coming out.Β
Sometimes I question if he already knows since he knows my partner and I are living together and we come to family events together but Iβm not sure.
Any help would be very much appreciated! Thanks!
Hey love, Iβm so glad that youβre posting this here and letting out your dilemmas.Β
First of all, congratulationsss!!! This is great news, I hope that all goes well.
Iβd say, if you feel that your dad already has an idea about it, then Iβm guessing heβs just trying to respect your privacy and waiting for you to tell him about it. Itβs also okay if you procrastinated and took your time. I know itβs not easy. So, take your time and then tell him whenever you feel comfortable.
Itβs afterall your life and your decisions. Your dad loves you and will be accepting of your choices!
All the best xx