Hey, I’m trying to see if someone here has same issues as me and is trying to create permanent solutions
I don’t want to call it ADHD but I have severe problem getting work done.
I can do it if someone’s there with me. But if left alone, I’ll not do it even if the consequences are high.
I’ve even put myself in position where if I don’t do something within 1 month, I’ll lose 1.4 lakhs. It was also a business decision but still, I put myself in that position where the only option I have not to lose this 1.4 lakhs is to get some things done related to business, all within my scope of control, but I still didn’t find motivation to finish what I started.
Infact, I remember I screwed up literally the last exam I had to give during MBA, where I knew 90% of the question paper but I just didn’t feel like writing the answers and slept for a solid 20 minutes in exam and had to take the exam after 6 months again.
When I was a kid and even while I was in college, I at least used to get that adrenaline one or two days before the examination but at this stage in life where I have to take care of myself and the business decisions and the consequences of those decisions are all mine, I am screwing everything up royally.
I know what to do. I want to do it. But I won’t.
I have tried to come up with solutions for this but I need someone to be there with me who has similar problems to create a solution that is very custom and works holistically. Basically I know what the solution is. But if I don’t have anybody else to work with, I will not work on the solution!
May be when you are going through all this share it with a friend and may be then they motivate you for getting things done and you could do then ?
Sucheta B. @sucheta_baidya
I could have said that You can talk to a friend but I really feel Support from a Mental Health Professional will be needed, to understand is actually happening and what can support You
Pls see if you have closed friend or someone you have met, who can keep u going…else, you can use this place for tagging someone to assist you. Best wishes
