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@awed_needle_3

Hey, Iโ€™m trying to see if someone here has same issues as me and is trying to create permanent solutions

I donโ€™t want to call it ADHD but I have severe problem getting work done.

I can do it if someoneโ€™s there with me. But if left alone, Iโ€™ll not do it even if the consequences are high.

Iโ€™ve even put myself in position where if I donโ€™t do something within 1 month, Iโ€™ll lose 1.4 lakhs. It was also a business decision but still, I put myself in that position where the only option I have not to lose this 1.4 lakhs is to get some things done related to business, all within my scope of control, but I still didnโ€™t find motivation to finish what I started.

Infact, I remember I screwed up literally the last exam I had to give during MBA, where I knew 90% of the question paper but I just didnโ€™t feel like writing the answers and slept for a solid 20 minutes in exam and had to take the exam after 6 months again.

When I was a kid and even while I was in college, I at least used to get that adrenaline one or two days before the examination but at this stage in life where I have to take care of myself and the business decisions and the consequences of those decisions are all mine, I am screwing everything up royally.

I know what to do. I want to do it. But I wonโ€™t.

I have tried to come up with solutions for this but I need someone to be there with me who has similar problems to create a solution that is very custom and works holistically. Basically I know what the solution is. But if I donโ€™t have anybody else to work with, I will not work on the solution!

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May be when you are going through all this share it with a friend and may be then they motivate you for getting things done and you could do then ?

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Sucheta B. @sucheta_baidya

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I could have said that You can talk to a friend but I really feel Support from a Mental Health Professional will be needed, to understand is actually happening and what can support You

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Anonymous
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Pls see if you have closed friend or someone you have met, who can keep u goingโ€ฆelse, you can use this place for tagging someone to assist you. Best wishes

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