BLISS @bliss_27
Heyβ¦Iβm new here. Today only I came to know about this app and so far Iβm loving it. There are so many lovely souls here with whom we can express all our worries comfortably. And luckily there are people who truly try their best to make us feel better and solve our issues.I know Iβm solving some issues of the ones who are in a tough situation but here Iβm also dealing with major issue in my life due to which Iβm living a life of frustration and depression.
Iβm an MSc Graduate. And completed my education in 2019. I was a top student in School and College but after college Iβve chosen a career which was truly unsatisfactory for me. But still with lots of struggles I passed with a top cgpa in a reputed institute in our city. But so far Iβm trying for various jobs related to my eligibility but no success. Iβve given so many exams interviews but I failed. I truly feel like a failure. Now Iβm blaming myself for choosing that career due to my familyβs persistence but now Iβm sitting idle with no motivation. Iβm the only child of my parents but all my career decisions has been taken by my uncles. Me being an introvert girl and also a little shy due to which Iβm unable to express any issues
Saurav Mittal @saurav06
Hi
I read your thought
I can understand your feelings that you want to do something in your life and for yours parents
BLISS @bliss_27
True
BLISS @bliss_27
Also I have less friends but they are really busy in their life. And being a girl already of marriageable ageβ¦ people in our area are asking my parents to get me married and some also blaming my parents for choosing this career for me. I truly feel helpless seeing them disappointed. And sometimes due to all these I feel like ending my life is the best solution but I donβt have the guts to do so. Due to Covid most exams has been cancelled due to which one year had already been wasted. And ryt now due to all the failures in the pastβ¦I donβt feel motivated to study. Iβm studying but with no hope.
Iβm sorry for sharing this depressing story which may trigger you but I felt like Sharing here as Iβve no one to share with.
If anyone reads all these patiently and help me with this issue Iβll be highly grateful.
Take care
Saurav Mittal @saurav06
Can we get connect
BLISS @bliss_27
Yeahβ¦but how?
Saurav Mittal @saurav06
Can you send me request
BLISS @bliss_27
I just connected you
BLISS @bliss_27
Thatβs so sweet of you for this beautiful responseβ¦but my problem is I myself donβt know what I truly want. Means since childhood I was so dependent on my parents and their decisions that I forgot myself. Now a days people are following their love and passion in career but I myself donβt know what I want in my career as Iβm from a non technical backgroundβ¦so options are very few in my case as Iβm simply a post graduate with zero experience.
Saurav Mittal @saurav06
Canβt see your request
BLISS @bliss_27
Can you send me the request
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
Wow wow
Slow down
I mean you are in a phase of life almost every middle class boy or girl goes through and get past it by hard work and ignoring stupid peopleβs opinions about them. At the end its only you who knows whats best for you not even your parents seriously. Do what you feels right,put your heart in it and you will blossom for sure and be confident yaar.
Just think how you reached here and how much you sacrificed for it. You worked hard at every point of your life whether it was your boards exam or anything.
And i also wanna say more things on this issue because my very close btech friend who was preparing for govt exams suffered from same thing but then it will become a long political science answer for 15 marks
But let me know if i can help you in anyway
BLISS @bliss_27
Iβve no problemβ¦you can shareβ¦Iβll glad to knowβ¦but itβs up to you.
BLISS @bliss_27
And thank you for the motivationβ¦I truly felt too lonely as I had no one to share how Iβm feeling.
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
Okay listen
First of all you are not some goat or cow whoβs dependent on his owner for food.Your parents love you and viceversa.Its not like that when they will get old they will become a liability to you they will always be an asset same as you are
Second nobody is following their passion as i know because we never got a chance to realise what our passions were.From day 1 in school teachers ask what we wanna become we said doctors,engineers,scientists etc and we were trained in this manner π
almost all of us are doing what we are being told by our genius relatives who think that engineering is the most prestigious field because their son is doing sde job in some mnc
Third you are a post graduate with hell lot of knowledge use it.I know salary might be low because we have shifted towards IT sector economy and its on boom in india.
But you will stay happy that i can assure you.
And srry again it got very lengthy but couldnt control my emotions because i can relate so much to it
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BLISS @bliss_27
Hey noβ¦I was glad that you took out your time and motivated me. Thank you so much for all the positive and moral support.
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
And careerwise iβm not too sure if i can guide you much because actually iβm persuing mtech so not my field but i will say stay positive plzz talk with some good friend
Connect with me if you want and dont think like the way you are thinking.
Everyone is special and unique in this world
Kuldeep Pathak @kuldeep21
Arre it feels like my own story just from another person so no need to say thank anyway
Damn, itβs a similar story for me except for the facts that Iβm almost done with my Btech and Iβm a boy. But, still I can completely relate with the way you are feeling. Hopefully things fall in place soon. ππ»
BLISS @bliss_27
Thank you for your wishes.
Hey, just wanna say welcome to the appβ¦ itβs a good space where people listen and console you , youβre having a tough time , obviously I donβt know why people make your time stressful, but itβs something you can surely overcome and make your day and ways filled with change, you wanna see finally.
BLISS @bliss_27
Thank you so much for your kind responseβ¦I hope things get normal soon.