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Hey, I’m back. So, my ‘friends’ are talking behind my back and they’re trying to get rid of me. But, the problem is that there are 4 ‘friends’. I’ll call them uhm Nelly, Vic, Oliva and Trixy? So, Olivia and Trixy are the toxic ones that try to ruin everything for me at school, but Nelly and Vic are unproblematic, but they don’t stick of for me. I do have other friends, but it’s not the same. So, I rejected Olivia, but I didn’t treat her different after that, but now she started copying everything that I do and It’s getting a bit creepy. So, she got the same haircut at me, orders things when I do, got a crystal necklace when I got one (but she doesn’t even know the meaning. Like, if you’re gonna copy me then atleast make sure you know what crystal you’re wearing), when I post something she does too. And the worst thing is that she acts like I’m faking her! I hate it when people copy someone and put the blame on them. So, our exams are almost over. On wednesday and me and the others are going to meet after school. But, I’m scared that they will ruin that day for me too. But I don’t want to go home after school, because that’s what they want. They want me to be alone then! Any advice?

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Enjoy your own company and give yourself a treat buddy, if you don’t want to go home. Don’t ruin your mood for others. If people don’t stand for you in your hard times they are not your real friends. One day you will find someone who will cherish you dearly 😁

Anonymous

Thanks for you advice! Have a nice day! 😄

Wish you a happy life✊😊

Anonymous

I wish the same for you!😌

Anonymous

Leave toxic people no matter what.

Anonymous

You’re right, thank you! :)

Anonymous

I think she’s into you because if someone starts to copy you they like you and want your attention because of the way that they felt to you and they want the love back not going to lie it’s creepy but after some time in a relationship it can fix things I have to see this happen but in a bad way also don’t let what people say hold you down I can be the same way and it can be better if you just let them say whatever and just do you if you have to find friends better friends but that girl wants you but she does not know how to express it with words she does it by copping you that how some people work so hope this helps

Anonymous

Thank you, but I only liked her as a friend and nothing more. But, she knows that! She started setting everyone up against me when I rejected her in a nice way. And you’re right, thanks for your advice!😊

Anonymous

np just trying to help the nice guys out there like me because I don’t know about life any more

s

She sounds toxic. And also, maybe they’re planning something? I don’t think it’s a good idea to go there. Maybe you can meet up with your other friends? And she’s talking bad about you because she wants to be you and that’s also the reason why she copies you! And, please promise me one thing! Don’t let them get to you.

Anonymous

I don’t think they’re planning to hurt her physically.

s

Well, the word is fucked up, you never know! There are so many people t that got hurt by their own friends, but I’m not saying that they will do that, but in general it’s not a good idea to go there.

Anonymous

Oh, okay. I think so too!

You should actually prove her wrong. I had a friend like that too but she stopped because i told my friends and they saw her drawings of her copying me. Well if your “friend” Keeps on doing that you should tell someone or your parents. if shes constantly lying you shouldn’t give her attention. Shes copying you because she wants to be like you. Maybe inspired. Or maybe bc she wants attention.

Anonymous

My parents do know about the situation so I’m happy that I can tell them, but they don’t always know what to say. So, thanks for giving me this advice! I hope you have a nice day/night!😊

no problem you too!!! :)

m

see you will find people who will try to ruin your happiness, and I have experienced something similar to yours so I would prefer u not to care much about people who don’t like u or ruins your happiness, they are not the only people who exist in this world, u will find many who will look over your happiness, so choose them.

Anonymous

Thanks for the advice. You’re right about this! Have a nice day! 😊

m

u too :)