Hey
I was talking to someone and we both developed feelings for each other. But his parents engaged him with someone else. I am just so sad. She is so perfect, intellectual. I want to be happy for him but i just cant

Breakup

I really love this guy. I don't know if it is romantic love or not. But I do care for him a lot and I put him first every single time. But he is not serious about me, not even as a friend. He takes me for granted, never replies, never care, never give attention. I was tired of all these. I even told him how I feel when he ignores, when he never replies, when he disappears and never texts for days. But he never seems to understand them. He only texts me when he needs something. Sometimes I feel I have self respect I should stop talking with him. I never talk to him for days. But some times it feels like how ever he might be let me be myself. I used to text again. I was and am oscillating. Even now it's been a week exactly since we talked. I feel horrible. One side I feel I never want to text him because I can see him uploading stories and statuses every single day but never getting even a second to text me a hi. He knows that will make my day. But he never did. On the other side I feel "be yourself". But every time when I opt for the second option I get hurt and that pains same like the pain I experience when he never talks/ ignores me.  Every time I see posts/feed I remember him. I just want to send them to him. But I don't want to. I am just feeling like I am stuck deep inside my thoughts. Some one please help :(

Mental Wellbeing

There’s this guy I like; we work together at same cafe (where we met), we’ve both said we like each other but he doesn’t want to feel too overwhelmed with emotion so basically friends w/ benefits….. we both have anxiety & tbh connect well & we actively try to stay communicative… He’s kissed me before…I don’t know if i should fight for him???

Anxiety

I want to stick with him but his actions are bothering me, he barely text me, update me, or call me unlike before. His reasons is always coz of his work and sheeez. I need to know what to do? What should i do? 

Frustration

I don’t really know how I’m feeling, I only know that I’m tired like hell and that I really need someone to talk with. I feel an empty space inside me to be honest, and this is only happening because of him… I know that he’s loosing interest, and I’m pretty sure that he is starting to like another girl and that really scares me. Sometimes the only thing that I wanted was probably to disappear for a long time, and when I came back everything was back to normal.. 

3am Thoughts

So there is this guy I like … actually love…. And ik he loves me too … I mean we have kissed so yeah …. He took the first step … but there is a issue … even after all this we were just friends … I need clarity cause I have like huge trust issues and I have asked him many time what are we … he always tells I love you but still a friend … friends don’t French kiss now for they? 
I dono what to do I’m literally confused and now he is back in his boarding where he can’t contact me … it’s the worst situation for me … should I wait? Should I leave? I dono what he wants and I dono what to do… 

Confusion

In Aug my ex told me not to contact him
And few days back he drunk dialed me.
Its been a long time we ve met. He asked me do u really feel a connection between us. I know i did feel a lot for him but i said nothing in front of him. I really want to talk to him the next day i texted him but he ignored my texts. Should i text him again or stay silent?

Well, I’ve mixed feelings. So there’s this guy who’s my childhood friend like I’ve known from past 15 years at least. Since the I always liked him, I had attraction before but then later we started talking regularly and then I fell in love with him ( this was 7-8 years ago). He got to a year later that I have feelings for me but then he tried to set me up with his friend and that was failed miserably. And then from past 2-3 years I’ve realised that he’s not into me. He ignores me, we don’t talk much now, and whenever he is in a relationship he doesn’t let me know idk why, but his last girlfriend messaged me after breakup that take care of him and all, and that was my first conversation with his girlfriend( this was around 1.5 years ago). Then 10 days before we met after an year and I asked him that his girlfriend broke up with him because of me? But then he said, you were not the reason but definitely she had problems with you. And he was missing her and watching my love missing his ex in front of me was like heartbreaking but I didn’t say anything to him. Now I’m not sure what should I do, I guess I still have feelings for him because I have never been into a relationship until now because I don’t find that I’ve with anyone what I’ve for him. But he’s simply not interested in me, even 15 mins before I called him because I was missing him and wanted to talk but he never picks up my calls. I don’t know what should I do. 

Love

what if someone was talking to you very nicely 
but someday seems in no interest to chat
he replied 8 hours late
and when i asked he said he keeps no phone days i.e he dosen't use phone on 6/30 days in a month
further we talked he started finding ways to stop the conversation
when that didn't work he said he was in a bad mood and will talk to me later
i know he likes me , he told this to our mutual friend
and received a message this morning that he's sorry if he was weird the other day 

i don't know what he wants 
is he really sad or just playing mind games

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