Hey! I wanna talk about emotions and sexual health. I am a straight man and 23 years old.
So I have been getting sexual urges (natural for my age), but it feels like it is contradicting with my moral values. My morals are to find that one woman and keep others as friends or acquaintance. However, I get urges to look for sex. It becomes really hard to keep create those boundaries because of that urge. I don’t want to engage with almost every woman (not talking about below 18 or elderly) I meet, and rather keep some as my good friends. I don’t know how to tackle this. Also, I struggle to understand social cues when I am in situations where I want to talk to a woman just not make friends but to date. I am not sure what to do.
For the history, I have never been in a relationship and I am virgin. Not sure if it does make a difference, but revealing in case it has any relevance to this topic. When it comes down to chatting with people, I am very chill and gel up easily regardless of gender.
Any help would be appreciated!! TIA
I struggle to understand social cues when I am in situations where I want to talk to a woman just not make friends but to date.
This part is very very important.
This is completely natural, look up for casual dates, mature dates usually end up there, but if you want to stick up to your morals then look for serious relationship, don’t worry you’ll get one, there are still plenty of girls single
Understood but I struggle in keeping or maybe understanding that boundary. Not everyone wants to be everyone. So, how can I know the dynamic of the relationship I have with the other person? Maybe there is no point in trying to date the other person because that person doesn’t feel the same way. Idk how to know that.
Don’t stress too much, you’ll eventually know everything, right now i will just suggest you to watch the other person’s steps, one step you take, one they will, Don’t go further then that you’ll look desperate
Thanks a lot!!