Hey I need major help. I love my bf, we’ve been together for months. And he’s helped me through really rough times. But idk there’s just something really bugging me. I used to feel like he was the one for me, like there was nobody else in the world. But lately I’ve been having mixed feelings about it. He’s really sweet, and nice. But sometimes he’ll just leave without warning. He gets way too jealous when I hang out with my BFF and even talks bad about her. He doesn’t like me hanging with anyone when he’s not there. Idk what to do. I love him, I truly do. But there’s something inside of me now that just really makes me want to take a break but I don’t want to hurt him at all. I haven’t been myself since we met, and I’ve become too dependent on him. I just need some time to be me again, but I really don’t want to hurt him cuz I’m scared he’ll hurt himself. And he means a lot to me. Help?
Ashutosh @ashutosh13
Hey,
Truly understand what you’ve shared and we all have been in this phase in our lives. I would say try 2 things. Listen to him and think about his perspective too and then tell him your perspective. I am sure he will listen.
you both need to understand your priorities and thinking and respect each other’s emotions. Because when both of you will give efforts, it’ll become a beautiful relationship. Try it, I’ll be glad to help you whenever u want
Ashutosh @ashutosh13
I know you think about him a lot and care for him. Now its time to think about both of you together. If you’re not feeling like yourself, you need to check for the reasons.
But talking is the first step. So all the best. :-)
No don’t hurt him it’s the same situation was with me in my past he is possessive for you talk him about your space about your friends how they are so imp and what they do for you make a plan for a meet up of your friends and your bf
Sanjay @knowshowitfeelslik...
Feel like you should talk to him and ask him why he feels jealousy if you are going out with you girl friends…
And make him feel secure about you and your relationship
Make him feel that you also feel same as he do
Talk to himand spend more time with him …
Maybe this helps :)
Talk to him about the jealous part
As for feeling dependent…that’s something that you should focus on
Try to tell him that you need some time for yourself, if you think he can hurt himself, reassure him that you feel the same for him, you just need to do this for yourself
All the best
