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Anonymous

Hey,
I need a small suggestion.
I am in a long distance relationship completing 2 years last month. A couple of months ago things were very very complicated but anyhow things got fixed and I see her putting efforts nicely these days, but there are few things that seems like she isn’t doing good with me I mean i feel like there is something that is going wrong from her end but now the thing is i am not sure that is it because of my overthinking or some real intuitions. I am unable to confront because i don’t want to bring anything that happened in the past because the day we fixed i promised that I would never bring back anything from the past. How should I deal with my thoughts?
Kindly share your thoughts.
Note: she never cheated

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Anonymous

Talking openly is the best solution in my opinion. Things will get worse, if you don’t do it now. Tell her upfront clearly why you want to talk about past and your current feelings right now!! Talking will solve all the issues I believe!!

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Anonymous

If you going to talk … please have these conversations face to face and not in a video call

lifeChanger!! @mit007

Its your deep feeling due sometime her behavior or response is not the way you are excepting… so take a pause and do a clear communication with her what’s doing in ur thoughts and why … i sure she will share her side and you two will get more faith on each other

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Anant @aiena

Meeting is the best solution

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