Hey I am in a relationship since 2yrs. But from a week or so I have not getting that old vibe which I used to het earlier. I don't know why this all is happening. I just want him to be the way he was earlier. And I don't know how to say him this thing. I cry many a times in whole day thinking about all this. Is there someone who could help me out without judging me!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey!
As your relationship grows older things tend to change, you both get more used to each other and the whole "new vibe of being GF BF" fades away. 
Sometimes just a small surprise or a cute little dinner date is all what feels like new. 

If you feel that the spark is missing, talk to him. If you think how will I, you will everyday think about the same thing again and again and will make you eat from the inside. So, just go for it and wait for the outcome. He is your boyfriend, you should know how will he react to a situation. Take some time, think when it will be the right move and go for it. 

Relationships

Guys, I need your help. So there is this guy with whom I was kinda on a flirt stage but our flirt was on the grounds of genuine like of each other. Then for some reasons we could not be together and now he is with someone else. Before, he would express his feelings with gentle touching on my hair or face, nothing over the line. But now that he has a gf he still does those things sometimes. Like I'm so confused. Him being like that, makes me think of him the same way before which is wrong, i should not like or love him anymore. So I'm planning to tell him about this and ask him to stop it. But how should i explain it to him? I don't want to be harsh or anything but should I let him know that if his like that it effects my feelings? Or what.. How to say it. any idea? 

3am Thoughts

It's been 3 yrs since I sat in a dark room to think about life and relations and today I did it again. He has started affecting my emotions, which is not a good sign I think. The last time when someone influenced my emotions... I nearly lost myself. And at present I can't afford to lose myself again. 
I really don't know what to do now. Maybe I should runaway like I always do or maybe I should stick around and face the truth...but at the end of the day, I'm gonna be hurt anyway.

Frustration

I keep waiting for him to text me at night...we don't talk the entire day only to hope that we will talk at night....but he's busy playing games...am I wrong to feel that I'm no more his priority 

So I was in relationship with this guy for 4 years and I’m still with him and I love him immensely. I had a friend who liked for a long long time and i got attracted to him. So I took a break from my relationship to be with him. It was all very casual and we kissed once. I told the friend that it is very casual but he didn’t understand maybe. So after a few days, I got tired of it and went back to my boyfriend and told him everything. He was broken but after long talks he decided to give it another shot. I love him a lot and I just want your option on whether or not you think our relationship is gonna work out ? I love him a lot and I wanna marry him someday too. He’s the best boyfriend and loves me to. I just think everyone makes mistakes once in a while and that people have the ability to change for good!

He texted me that he'll come meet me today, I was so happy, then I opened Whatsapp and saw that he just canceled it after 5 minutes and is may be sleeping now.

I feel terrible.

all thesse nights i was up worrying abt him and he was in love wit a girl who dont even like him. he wasted a whole relationship on some bs. he had me crying worried and feeling drained. i liked him so much and i did so much to make him happy and i get this in return? he a whole bitch who cant keep a relationship bc hes scared. he needs to grow up

Boyfriend

HELP!!
Well, I met this guy 4 years back when he was even shy to sit beside a girl closely but I always had this ability to make people comfortable around me and slowly as days passed even he started to open up with his issues and started sharing almost everything (Note: It was always me who used to text him and many times he used to not reply to my texts even if he was online, but I still didn't leave him). I knew I liked his personality by then because he was not like other guys who always expect girls to do flirty talks or wear some fancy stuffs to attract attention and the best thing was he was a big time introvert which is one of my criteria to date someone because I feel if a guy is an introvert he would give all his time only to me, only did I know later that people change. Today, I have been dating that guy for past 2 and half years but in these years he has become more busy, has become more workaholic and the worst part he loves to give time to his new friends too. Where am I in all this I don't know. Yes he do say good morning goodnight love u n all but I don't feel connected anymore. It's not like he is ignoring me but I feel my part of time is being shared with these new friends. Yesterday he asked me to tell all our classmates date of birth and when I asked the reason he told me that even after leaving the college he wants to maintain all these friendships for the future. Maybe I should be happy with this new person he has grown into but I am not able to accept it. I was introvert and maybe for 2 years in the middle I tried to be extrovert but later I understood I am not an all time party person or all time enjoying with friends and gossiping n talking person so after some time I came back to my original introvert form but now my boyfriend has been in that extrovert scenario for almost 3 years I guess. There is not a single day when he talks about his new friends. There is no talking about us anymore I feel and am scared, when our relationship will become long distance one, I don't think he will have time to talk to me everyday. He keeps asking why don't I say something about my day, but I always feel there is nothing new in my everyday life. I live my life alone with my own company so what am I supposed to say at all. Please help me out what should I do or think or say. I feel the whole relationship to be a formality now. I don't want to feel like that. Please help me guys..

My boyfriend cheated on me. And has been lying about it for over a year. I still love him. I want to kill myself. 

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