maeve @depressed_human
Hey, I am hard core crushing on a guy who has a gf. I see him everyday and I get tortured. I have his number and can’t stop staring at the screen waiting for him to message me. He acts like he likes me but I know he doesn’t. Please help
It’s like fooling yourself by saying that if miracle do exist it will come to me.
Yeah…but it’s hard to pull away from him like yesterday I was at a birthday party with him and we went to some dark place and he just took my hand and placed it on his…I can never forget such moments
Himanshu heman @himanshu_h...
Did maeeve got Otis ? No na…she focused of career first
Lmao that is so true
I’ll try to focus on my studies
Even we boys can sense the feelings for us. And act accordingly. So better be good at pretending that nothing happened.
Okay , thanks I’ll try to
if he can sneak behind his girlfriend to do things toward you that he shouldn’t because he’s in a relationship, why do you think he can’t do the same to you with another girl as time goes by? boys like that are egotistical, the more they learn some girls crave their attention, the more they enjoy, but of course someone is too stupid to believe they are genuine once they taste a sweet offer, unfortunately, that’s you. i’m not telling you to stay away, at the end of the day, it’s your choice to continue being stupid for an asshole like that or have a someone who can treat you the way you think you deserve. it’s a matter of self-worth. now, if you still chose to be stupid for him and in the end you got hurt, well then, you deserve what you tolerate.
I agree…this is the reason why I am trying to pull away from him and trying to avoid him the most. It’s really hard to do so because I can see care in his reactions. He stays up till 4 am on a school day when I’m sick just to take care of me and remind me that I’m not alone. It’s hard to live without him but I think I’ll survive
Best way to get over someone is to get under them. Quote I heard a while back. Truer words have never been spoken.
Under them as in ?
He has a gf… you should put yourself in her shoes and then think
Exactly…if he ever avoids his gf just to talk to me I always tell him to go talk to her and sort things out with her. I have never met his gf ( they are in a ldr) but I’m pretty sure that she is a very sweet person. There are some moments when I cant tell him to stop. He has slept on my shoulders several times and has gotten physical ( hand touching, waist grabbing etc) many times. He has always been genuinely sorry about it and has tried to not repeat those mistakes again
if he doesn’t like you back or care about you, i think you’re just hurting and giving up yourself in this process. you just start to have a hope that maybe he likes you too, but when you finally realise he doesn’t, it becomes hard to deal with it.
it’s safe to move on from it and wait for someone who likes, respects and cares about you.
Yes, I’ll try to move on. The thing is we travel in the same bus and he sits right next to me. That time I don’t want to be rude so if he ever starts a conversation I try to go on with it.
