Hey! Hope you all are doing good.
I got married a few months back and before
marrying the guy (arranged marriage) he told me
about his past. He has a kid from another woman
which as he says, was a mistake and he told the
woman to not keep it because he was just 22
years old but she still chose to keep the baby.
Now that he is 32 and we got married, idk its
difficult for me to accept the reality. Not that the
kid lives with him or something, but he takes care
of the kid financially and on the other hand, we
are struggling financially. When its time for our
honeymoon, i, who was very sure of not spending
our honeymoon in our home country, still chose
to stay back and go to some nearby city because
he told me very clearly that we are not in the
position to spend that much money and i did
support him. Not just the honeymoon, but even if
i want to buy anything which is worth more than
rs1000, he’ll remind of the money problems. But
now, he says that his son needs furniture and he
just said to me very normally that he will have to
spend 50-70k ATLEAST. Whenever its about his
kid, he doesn’t think of the money. I mean, idk
how i should feel about it. Whenever he talk about
the kid idk i just dont feel good. I am not a mean person but I’ve never had all these feelings
before.
Please suggest me what i should do about this
situation and my feelings.
😂😂😂
Multiple posts for the same problem won’t get you the solution. Your peace has to come from within. But anyways… All the best.
